Author: sumptuousdaydreams

Awk question but I’m in college and have giving two blow jobs in my life… not exactly experienced. Can you give me some tips? PLEASE. I want to be good…. ah!

How to Give the Best Blowjobs

^That gives you some specific details to focus on. But the biggest tip I can give? Even if you hate giving a guy head, pretend to love it.

Fake it with the best of them. Because even if you really don’t like the act itself, you do enjoy giving someone else pleasure, so it’s all the same in the end.

Go to town on his dick like it is the best fucking popsicle you’ve ever tasted. Lick, suck, tease, bob, play with him, do EVERYTHING. In fact, act like it’s your new favorite toy and it’s yours to do what you want with.

Your enthusiasm and passion is half of his pleasure. If he thinks you love his cock that’s going to turn him on 10x more than any trick you’ve got with your mouth. Just the truth.

One more thing? Different guys like different stuff, so don’t make the mistake of doing “one style fits all”.  Ie. some guys like you to start off slow and teasing, then go for it with gusto. Others want you to skip the teasing and jump right into the swing of it. Some want this fondled, some want that touched, and so on. There’s no ONE way to give a blow job. Listening and being aware of the other person’s responses and reactions is the best way for you to learn what pleases them the most and therefore give them the best head possible.

Go forth and suck!

For years I have been really only been able to get myself off by “humping” but I want to be able to explore myself more and use my hands to get myself off. Any advice on how to break out of an old habit and into a new?

How to Masturbate for Women

There’s about 1,000,000 columns similar to this online. Honestly, the only thing I can tell you is  that it’s a personal experience and the only one who can know what works for you is YOU.

Read about it to get some suggestions/inspiration, but ultimately it’s all about you. You’ve found one way that works, now it’s time to explore, try different things, and find something else that works too!

It’s a blast. Enjoy it! 😉

My boyfriend and I are really honest with eachother but I feel like me riding him isn’t as good as he says it is. Any help or tips on how I can improve my skills?

In this case, I’m gonna tell you to be selfish.

If it’s not feeling good for you (and it should be because that’s a great position for women) then that’s something you need explore for yourself. Try to experiment with different angles, positions, rhythms, etc. You need to really focus on what pleases you and what works for you in that position. You have the control. Have him do different things as well! Encourage him to play with your breasts, circle your clit, thrust up while you grind down, move this way, go that way, and so on! Do what you need to do to make it work.

‘Cause if it’s feeling good for you, it’ll be feeling good for him, trust me. On the other hand, even if it’s not feeling that good for you, it’s probably still working for him. Guys are easy to please. Men are very visual creatures when it comes to sex (and many other things) so they love when a woman is on top because they get to see everything. You’re doing most of the work and they get to watch, it’s a win/win for them!

So I don’t think your boyfriend is exaggerating or lying to you when he says it’s good. I think you’re not feeling very confident up there and that’s negatively influencing the experience for you. If YOU are feeling good up there then he’s gonna get the ride of his life! That’s what the key is: YOU feeling good about it.

Seriously, when it comes to riding a man, it is ALL about you. Go for it! In this case, he’s just along for whatever you want.

What is your zodiac sign? Do you believe in astronomical signs/compatibilty? At least to some extent? :)

Oh…my…god. If she wasn’t at work, I would swear… Never mind! You’ll never understand the irony of this message.

Anyway, I’m not a believer in astrology, but apparently the “what’s your sign?” pick up line DOES actually work on occasion…

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This response has been complete and utter gibberish. (See above gif!) Only one other person can understand it. And, no, I’m not telling you my sign. It’s personal. 😉