My boyfriend and I are really honest with eachother but I feel like me riding him isn’t as good as he says it is. Any help or tips on how I can improve my skills?

In this case, I’m gonna tell you to be selfish.

If it’s not feeling good for you (and it should be because that’s a great position for women) then that’s something you need explore for yourself. Try to experiment with different angles, positions, rhythms, etc. You need to really focus on what pleases you and what works for you in that position. You have the control. Have him do different things as well! Encourage him to play with your breasts, circle your clit, thrust up while you grind down, move this way, go that way, and so on! Do what you need to do to make it work.

‘Cause if it’s feeling good for you, it’ll be feeling good for him, trust me. On the other hand, even if it’s not feeling that good for you, it’s probably still working for him. Guys are easy to please. Men are very visual creatures when it comes to sex (and many other things) so they love when a woman is on top because they get to see everything. You’re doing most of the work and they get to watch, it’s a win/win for them!

So I don’t think your boyfriend is exaggerating or lying to you when he says it’s good. I think you’re not feeling very confident up there and that’s negatively influencing the experience for you. If YOU are feeling good up there then he’s gonna get the ride of his life! That’s what the key is: YOU feeling good about it.

Seriously, when it comes to riding a man, it is ALL about you. Go for it! In this case, he’s just along for whatever you want.

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