Chest area? You can’t even call them boobs? Breasts even? Cause you have them, you know…
Are you worried that something about them is unattractive (ie. nipples, birthmark, whatever) or do you feel like they’re too small/big?
There’s not much I can do to help you other than to say that you have to find a way to love and accept your body just the way it is. And there are many people who love your body just the way it is too. We are our own worst critics. Our self image is completely distorted from how others perceive us. Not to mention the media portrays a fucked up example of “normality” when it comes to our bodies. What they show is actually ABNORMAL and representative of perhaps 1% of the human population. Everyone looks different, everyone has their own thing, and if you’re worried about other people – don’t. People that you’re with often like you more than you like yourself. And isn’t that sad?
Love and embrace your body for everything that it is and that will actually make YOU sexier and more beautiful simply because of your confidence.
I understand how hard it can be to reach that point of self assurance so if you really feel that strongly about it, for now (DON’T MAKE THIS A LIFELONG HABIT), why not just keep your shirt on during sex or your bra? Work your way up to being more exposed and feeling more confident about your body. Don’t hide away forever. It doesn’t do you or your partner any good. You need to feel confident and comfortable during sex, so do what you need to do to make that happen.
Sumptuous Daydreams 