Hey I’m girl who was nervous about her bf eating her out. Well, I was still feeling awkward about the whole thing so i talked to him and he basically said he wanted to eat me out to get me off cos it’d feel good for me and he wants me to feel good. And basically I thought it was really sweet and hot at the same time and we didn’t actually do anything yet cos his parents were downstairs, but he’s invited me over today and I’m so nervous and excited? Any tips?

I think it’s great that you talked to him about it! Good for you! Honesty in these situations is the best possible solution.

It’s hard to give tips for someone RECEIVING oral, but basically…make sure you’re freshly waxed/shaved, take a quick shower to clean up, and from there it’s all about relaxing and feeling good! Close your eyes, give yourself over, breathe deeply, and let him do some work.

If he’s not really getting it right or doing something outright WRONG, don’t hesitate to correct him. By ‘correct him’, I mean encourage him to do something else – ie. push his head slightly to where you want to feel him or whisper/moan what it is you want him to do. Tell him to use his tongue, tell him to go faster or slower or to be more gentle or to go harder, you get the point! Just don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.

The trick is to do it without making it seem like you’re criticizing him and don’t forget to give him a little bit of encouragement/praise when he’s doing something that feels really good! You don’t have to say it if you feel awkward talking, but moaning or pulling him closer will show him that he’s getting it right and it’ll help him please you better once he knows what’s working for you!

Again, just remember that it’s all about you in this moment and you’re allowed to be selfish about what you want (he said it himself, he wants to make YOU feel good!) so be calm and enjoy it! Don’t be afraid to laugh or giggle in the beginning. It’ll help your nerves. 🙂