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My boyfriend was fingering me and so I decided to pull his pants down and give him a hand job and about 30 seconds later he came all over me. He felt so embarrassed because he never came that fast before. Was it because of what I was wearing? I wore a red tube top (I look good In red) and black sweat pants and panties. No bra. It really caught me by surprise but he looked so asking me if I was okay.

Messing up in bed actually makes it better and more personal. When i went to out my girlfriend on time, I sneezed. She just laughed and I continued. When she orgasmed, it made a little noise and we both just laughed. it’s cute and makes it that much better. Sex is boring when you don’t mess up. Why would you want porn star sex, when you can make it SO much more personal?

Can I just say, for those who are worried, that it’s so much fun to have little slip ups in bed? It’s amazingly cute to see your partner miss when he/she tries to kiss you or rub you or please you in any sense. It breaks the ice of “oh how is it suppose to be” just go with your body and once you do you won’t have many questions because your body has all the answers! Sex is wonderful. All you need to do is be ready, loosen up and voila! That IS sex!

^This is from another blog that has the same problem as my inbox. I get these kinds of questions DAILY. And I can only answer so many without constantly repeating myself.

All of you that keep messaging me about being straight but being turned on/wanting to hook up with girls…

Stop calling yourself straight. You’re putting a label on yourself that limits your sexuality. You want to kiss a girl? Kiss a girl. You want to kiss a guy? Kiss a guy.

The world is not black and white. Sexuality is not as linear as society wants it to be. We are all over the spectrum. Stop panicking over what you think you should be versus what you want. Just let yourself be. Do what you want to do. Stop questioning it.

ENJOY IT. REVEL IN IT. EXPLORE.

I was the anon who posted about the conversation I had with my aunt and I wanted to say thank you. I wanted your opinion and got it. I wanted a fresh and different perspective and I am grateful. I might add that I am a bit frightened of sex because I think I about how intimate it is and being naked and all that rawness. I know for sure my first times will be awkward but I know once I get comfortable I’ll be an animal. Thanks again for your thoughts.