To the anon who didn’t feel she could have toys, you could always get one of those three or four legged back massagers from Walmart or somewhere, if you want to go the vibration route. They’re pretty cheap, usually fairly quiet, and your family won’t think of it as a sex toy; they might even ask to borrow it (learned that from experience). You can always just say you need it for your shoulders or neck to help relax before bed! That’s what I did for my first one :)

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this is gonna be weird to ask but I have no where else to go. Do you know if shower masturbation (like laying down in the shower, legs open under the faucet) can cause butt shrinkage? Lol sorry to ask this :(

I totally appreciate the sarcasm. I think you’ve proven time and again that you take questions seriously and more than that I like that you can throw in a humorous answer once in a while to the queries that obviously don’t require an in depth statement. You have dozens upon dozens of questions that are tagged in your faq, and a little humor never hurts.

I’m with this girl, and I’m over the moon for her. It’s not constant butterflies and jitters, just content comfort and she makes me literally laugh out loud even though I don’t usually laugh. I love her. There’s no question, I just have this urge to blab about her to someone. Have a wonderful day, I love your advice posts.

I just wanted to drop a note and let you know that I really appreciate your blog. I’ve learned a lot from the things you post and it’s been really helpful to be able to learn more about sensual things in a positive way. I’ve been kind of sheltered and your blog is very tastefully done. Thanks for having such a great blog.

I hate your blog so much… it always makes me waaaaay to horny and my girlfriend is usually not around when I’m on tumblr… it’s just hard you know?? :( you give amazing advice though and now gladly know where to go for any questions I have now :)

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