Yes. It’s not really an orgasm though or it’s a different kind of orgasm. Basically, there hasn’t been enough studies done to really know what’s happening, but it feels good so go with it!
Tag: squirting
coming from a girl. sex has been so uncomfortable so far, even though my bladder is empty, i feel the need to pee during sex and makes it so uncomfortable and unrelaxing. whats this about?
First of all, make sure that you don’t just have to pee! Make a trip to the bathroom before you start getting frisky, and see if that helps your problem. Or if you have more impromptu sex, even if it disrupts the vibe, if you feel like you’re going to pee — go pee and then come back to your partner to continue. Better safe than sorry, because obviously peeing on them is probably going to ruin the vibe — unless you’re both into that. Communication is key. (;
On the other hand, it could be something else. There is always the possibility that the angle that you’re having sex from is allowing your partner to press against your G-spot. In this case, after a bit of stimulation, that particular feeling of ‘Oh god, I have to pee!’ will generally pass and lead to an incredible orgasm if you’re lucky. Generally, this happens more easily if you’re riding him, or you’re having sex from behind. Try a few positions, and try to work through the feeling and enjoy the experience with your partner who may have hit the jackpot by finding your G-spot. It takes a lot of couples a long time to figure that out, so, enjoy it instead of feeling uncomfortable.
-teagan.
I am a virgin, and when i masterbate i squirt and that makes me nervous for my first time… Like what if i squirt and he gets grossed out!?
Guys and girls think it’s sexy as hell. It’s a total turn-on. For them, it’s like “Yes! I fucking made it happen! I’m awesome!” haha.
However, not everyone KNOWS about squirting so if the guy/girl is inexperienced, they might be taken aback by it. Not ‘grossed out’ but more like ‘what just happened and was that good or bad or what did I just do!?’.
So the best way to avoid that confusion is to talk to your partner before you do something like that. You’re likely not going to just jump into having sex first, you’ll work your way up to it so there will be some fooling around. You can use those opportunities to bring it up and tell them that you squirt sometimes. They’ll either ask you what that is or say that’s hot and want to get right to it to see if they can make you orgasm like that. 😉
Count yourself as one of the lucky ones!
im a girl,how to stop squirting when having an orgasm? is it embarassing? it lookslike pee.
Wow. I have to say that’s an unusual request, lol. Most women are trying to figure how to make it happen once! 😉 Just to make sure that you ARE indeed ejaculating and not peeing: female ejaculation would not smell like pee and it would be a clear fluid. Now that we’ve established that…
You shouldn’t feel embarrassed about it! NOT AT ALL! Sex partners usually find it really hot because to them it’s like a testament of their sex-tastic abilities. (Even if that’s not accurate, haha.) It’s one of the most elusive types of orgasms! Honestly, you should submit some tips to this blog about what you do that gets you to squirt all the time. There are TONS of women who would love to know!
Squirting is usually linked to G-Spot orgasms. So to try to avoid it, I would suggest focusing on clitoral stimulation, gentler intercourse (not as frenetic and not with high intensity), and different positions that are NOT angled in a way to stimulate the g-spot.
Unfortunately, that’s only an educated guess. I really can’t tell you how to “stop”. I don’t think there is a way to stop altogether other than just not having an orgasm. Your body climaxes in a natural way and if ejaculating is what it wants to do, then that’s the way your body is!
Personally, I don’t think you should try to stop. It’s just going to make you afraid to orgasm, which is NOT something you want to do! Just put some towels down and gush away! There is nothing to be ashamed of and you’re actually lucky that you get to experience squirting at all! At least 75% of women have never even been able to experience it once…
hey! i have a boyfriend and we slept 2 times together and he fingered me several times, but every time i want to cum i have the feeling that i have to pee and i can not relax and this is so embarassing and awkward :(
Okay, well unless you have a weak bladder and have experienced accidentally wetting yourself at your age, then it’s highly unlikely that you’re actually going to pee.
It’s actually a very common sensation when approaching orgasm and often it’s a symptom of the G-Spot orgasm which can also lead to “squirting”. If that happens, a clear liquid (NOT PEE!) would come out.
The only thing you can do is accept the feeling and let it happen! Just give yourself over! You’re not going to pee on him. To give yourself more reassurance, try urinating before doing anything with him, that way you KNOW you have an empty bladder when the feeling comes around again.
Let yourself cum! It’s going to be okay.
Does every uterus have the potential to squirt?
First off, fluid from female ejaculation does NOT come from the uterus. It comes from what researchers have dubbed the ‘female prostate’ and exits through the urethra.
Now that that’s out of the way…
It has not yet been proven (or disproven) that all women have the ability to ejaculate. It’s still a relatively new area that’s being explored right now in the medical community. They didn’t even acknowledge the existence of squirting until the ’80s! No one has been able to prove what it “is” definitively nor can they prove that all woman are capable of it.
It’s 2013 and they still haven’t figured this shit out yet! Jfc…
i feel when i masterbate im about to squirt but i get scared so i stop. What do i do?
It’s an intense feeling so I get why you would be hesitant, but there’s nothing else I can say except you have to find a way to relax and let it happen. It’s a little scary, but it’s going to feel incredible! It’s all in your head right now. Once you make up your mind to let it happen, that’s what will change it for you. Nothing BAD is going to happen if you keep going with it. Try to approach it logically. You prepare yourself by being aware that it’s going to feel overwhelming, but you also know it’s OKAY for it to feel like that.
Let ‘er rip! (Or squirt…)
How can I make myself squirt? My girl friend said it turns her on and I want to squirt for her.
There’s no specific “method” to squirting. Honestly, it’s not even medically proven that every woman has the ability to ejaculate. I have heard, however, that it takes a lot of experimenting to find what will make it happen for you personally.
The most common denominator is that it involves a VIGOROUS stimulation of the clit and the G-spot. Once you’re worked up and wet from playing with your clit, you move to your G-spot. Use your fingers in a circular, steady, aggressive, pace to stimulate the G-spot. You can just use your fingers, but adding toys to the mix makes it easier though.
It often happens after your first orgasm, so this isn’t a one-off, it might happen in between your second or third. Just because you ejaculate, doesn’t mean you’ve had an orgasm yet. It’s a different kind of experience. Most women say that you know when it’s about to happen because it almost feels like you have to pee. The key is to ALLOW that to happen. Squirting seems to go hand in hand with very vigorous, rough, sex.
For more specific details try reading this:
Go hard, get wet.
When I cum, there’s this white creamy stuff. Does that mean I ‘squirted’?
No.
When you “squirt” it’s a clear fluid. You would be more concerned with whether or not you had accidentally peed.
So there’s a few possible reasons for the “white creamy stuff”:
1) Our female ‘juices’ change texture over the course of a month due to our menstrual cycle. Right after your period ends, it may be a lot like lotion, creamy, smooth. Closer to ovulation, it becomes clearer (not always though) and slippery. As soon as you ovulate, the fluid becomes thick and sticky. This all happens because the vagina is a self cleaning, nifty little sucker. Awesome! 😉
2) It could just be a frothy foam worked up through vigorous intercourse, coating the penis, and making your usual lubrication look different.
3) If the discharge has a not-so-great odor and/or looks kind of lumpy like cottage cheese then you probably have a yeast infection or an STI and you should see your doctor to have it treated ASAP.
4) It’s a possible oversight, but are you certain the “white creamy stuff” isn’t semen? Just throwing that thought out there…
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