Well i was wondering where am i supposed to spit after givin someone a blowjob, because like how is the situation you know?

First of all, you should never do anything that you’re uncomfortable with, so whether you want to spit or swallow is up to you.

There are a few options, once your partner comes you can either spit it on him, (though, that is probably something you would want to discuss with them first), or keep a cup handy to spit into.  You can also keep a towel nearby, or just spit it on the blankets in a pinch.  Good sex is usually messy sex, so you shouldn’t be too concerned about things getting a little messier.  There’s also always the option of going into the bathroom if you have one at your disposal.  Of course, that might cause your partner some discomfort, so to spare their feelings maybe tell them what you’re doing, so they aren’t horrified and think you’re just bailing on them.  Communication is important here!

Of course, another thing to consider is that if you’re worried about the taste here, spitting is only going to make that worse since you’ll be holding it in your mouth for longer.

Also, if you really don’t want to deal with the spit or swallow issue, you can always let them cum elsewhere.  Let them cum on your chest, or your stomach, or wherever you’re comfortable with — or not on you at all.  You can always get them close to their climax, and then finish the job with your hand instead.

Basically, there is really no way you’re “supposed” to give a blowjob, or spit or anything else.  The technique is up to you, and so is what you decide to do with the cum in your mouth.  And don’t worry, if you decide you want to swallow instead, cum is good for you!  (;

-teagan.

I’m an 18 year old girl and I’ve gone down of guys before but we always get interrupted before he finishes. But I don’t even know what to do when he does cum. Do I spit or swallow or? I just need some advice.. Thank you!

That’s your choice! Think about what you’d be comfortable with. A lot of guys prefer it when you swallow because they like being in your mouth until the very end and it’s also really hot for them to watch you.

You can swallow, you can take it and then spit (some of it does accidentally go down your throat though and you actually taste more of it because, with spitting, it swirls around in your mouth for a longer period of time), or you don’t have to take any of his cum at all!

If you’re not comfortable with it then DO NOT SWALLOW. You don’t have to, it’s not a requirement, and your guy will be perfectly fine with it.

Just discuss it with him before you start and make sure that he knows to pull away and finish himself off (or you can do it with your hand) into a tissue or somewhere on your body, whatever you want.

Test the waters. Try actually getting the point of climax with him (no swallowing, he jerks off onto something else) and after you’ve seen it the first time, decide whether or not you would mind having him cum in your mouth the next time. If you don’t want to do it, don’t do it. It’s that simple. Just communicate that with your partner and make sure he’s on the same page so there are no “surprises”…