To all the newbies!

Thanks for following! Just a quick PSA… If you’ve messaged me a question and I haven’t answered, it’s likely because of one of the following three reasons:

1) I’ve already answered it! Yep! Happens every day. So check the sex advice tags page. It’s an organized page with a list of categorized tags for questions I’ve answered since I started this blog. There’s a lot of stuff there, guys! I’ve been at this for a while.

2) It was a really stupid question. Honestly, some things are really about common sense. YES, IT IS UNPROTECTED SEX WHEN YOU DON’T USE A CONDOM. That was just an example…

3) I simply have no idea how to answer your question. It might be outside of my realm of knowledge or it might be about something too detailed/personal for me to be able to comment on. I don’t know what your friends/boyfriends/girlfriends/crushes are thinking. I’m not a mind-reader or a fortuneteller or a psychic. Sometimes there is really nothing I can think of to say that would help and you probably just need to talk to whoever it is that you’re having a problem with.

So when you give me really specific situations like four paragraphs of an explanation about how your gf is from a really religious family and she doesn’t orgasm during sex and she won’t go down on you and “she did this so I did this, and then she did this and this and then this and then another thing…what is she thinking and what should I do?” Dude…how should I know??

I’m happy to try to give advice on relationships and sex to the best of my knowledge, but I’m not a psychologist. I’m not a doctor. I have no credentials that would certify me as an expert in sex, medicine, or relationships. I’m just me. Here to post hot gifs and maybe help by answering some questions I feel I know something about. So with that in mind…let’s keep going! 🙂