It can either be called “Reverse Missionary” or “Tight Squeeze”. Either way, it’s good fun!
Tag: sex positions
I have amazing sex w/ my bf of 2 years but humping works best for me. My bf doesn’t know this and I want to try with him to get that pleasure. I’ve tried grinding on his dick and every time he just wants to stick it in me. Help!
You need to tell him what you want. Verbalize it. Be really clear with him about “something new” you want to try and tell him how you want it to work. I can’t stress this enough: when it comes to sex, men don’t want clues, they want the straight answer. They want you to lay it out for them. No guessing games. They want to know what you want so that they can do it for you! (If they’re the right kind of partner who is generous and loving, of course.) Grinding is frustrating for guys because they don’t get the pleasure that women do from it, BUT quid pro quo! If you get what you need, I assume that you will be very willing to return the favor? So it’s worth trying and it’s something that you need to discuss in order for him to understand. For him, grinding isn’t getting him off so of course he just wants to be inside you. You’re not telling him what you want so how can he know?
If he understands what you want to get out of it, he’ll be more willing to try and make it work to please you. If you’re not upfront with him about it, he’s not going to get it and he’ll just keep doing what feels the most natural and pleasurable for him. You need to clue him in so you guys can work on it together.
Gotta talk!
So my fwb wanna have a threesome with another guy they are both straight but i didnt wanna fuck another girl What are some things i could do to please one while the other is fucking me and how can i make them both happy
…just to give you a couple visual cues.
I’ll also remind you that there will be two of them and you have three holes…
Have fun!
When my girlfriend and I have sex I can always make her cum from the front and squirt at the same time but when I’m fingering her from behind it more difficult and almost impossible.. Any advice?
It’s all about the angles! You have to be able to hit the right spots and doing it backwards changes up your whole thought process. You’re used to doing it the way that has proven “successful” and now you rely on that too much.
You have a routine but that can also be seen as a rut when it comes to sex. You have to change it up, try hitting different places until you find what works the same as it does when you’re fucking her from the front. Experiment. Maybe try some toys. Point is, you can’t do the same things when you’re in a different position. You have to adapt!
What’s the best position to eat a girl out
Ones where the girl feels the most comfortable. The more comfortable, confident, relaxed she is, the better it will feel. So all those crazy standing positions, or like hanging onto a rope while being eaten out in midair, are just overrated. They can be fun, but they’re not the most conducive for the BEST of the BEST.
Try having her on her back with pillows under her ass and her legs draped over your shoulders.The higher she is, the more you can reach and the angle is better. But if her back is arching too much, that can be uncomfortable. So watch out for that.
Also try it sideways. Both of you on your sides, your head between her legs, and go to town. There’s a lot of access that way, it’s really comfortable, and it’s different than the norm so it feels great. You can have fun doing a 69 that way too, instead of being on top of each other, try just being side by side.
This is something I’ve always wondered. Does tribbing/scissoring really feel good or is it just for show in lesbian porn videos? Thank you :D
If you do it right, it’s awesome.
How does tribbing work? Where exactly does the vuvla come in contact? And is there any kind of doggy-style trib? [If you don’t know the answer, feel free to ignore] It’s just that there’s barely any resources or information even online.
As defined by The Free Dictionary…
Tribadism: n. a lesbian practice in which one partner lies on top of the other and simulates the male role in heterosexual intercourse.
Otherwise known as tribbing. A common tribbing position is “scissoring”.
It’s a shitty definition. Makes it seem like lesbians are trying to be straight and that there’s one lesbian in the “male” role. Ugh. So inaccurate.
It’s just about grinding your pussies together in whatever angle works best for optimal contact (hitting the clit!). You can trib from behind, but it’s a lot more difficult to get what you need from that angle. It becomes more about one woman humping the other instead of both getting that contact.
Do you understand how it works now? 😉
I’d love to ride my man more often, but I get so self conscious when I do. I’m not the skinniest girl and am quite chubby, and I’m so nervous about things like bouncy up and down and everything. I know it’s a great way to give guys pleasure, but I don’t get pleasure from it because I’m so nervous :/. Please help!
I completely understand. Being on top exposes all of those little areas of our bodies that we’re insecure about. The first thing to remember is that your man LOVES it when you ride him. He does! He’s not seeing or focusing on this “bulge” or that “jiggle”, he’s seeing you riding his cock and it’s the hottest thing ever to him.
However! It’s not all about the guy. YOU have to feel good about it first. And I’m going to correct you about something – it’s not just a great way to pleasure a guy; being on top is the BEST position for WOMEN!
Women are the ones who get the most out of being on top. And that’s why you should want to do this, not just cause your guy will be into it. DO THIS FOR YOU!
So…take baby steps. Work your way up to feeling better and more confident about being on top. You can’t let your insecurities about your body get in the way of YOUR pleasure. After trying this position a few times, you’ll soon realize that all those other little things that you were worried about don’t mean jack squat when you’re squeezing his dick inside of you and riding him like a fucking bronco!
The more you realize how GOOD it feels and that he’s enjoying it just as much, then the more relaxed you’ll be and the more secure you’ll feel even with the being “exposed” part.
How to take baby steps? You can make sure the room is dark. No visual stimulation, it’s just all about the sensation. Now, this would be for you, primarily. He’ll like it more when he gets to see you, but like I said, baby steps first! You can work up to it! (And he’s going to love whatever you do, really.)
You can also try reverse cowgirl. That way he’s just seeing your back and ass, there’s less exposure there for you, so you get to feel more secure and he will get an awesome view of his cock going in and out which will drive him crazy.
Basically, try to create situations where you feel comfortable being on top, however you need to do it. Think about what the things are that bother you and then think about what would make you feel more comfortable when you’re on top. Once you start feeling sexier up there (and you will because having control is hot and gives you so many more options), you’ll slowly begin to loosen the reins on your limitations and just ride the fuck out of your guy without a care in the world but getting your damn orgasm!
GO FOR IT! OWN YOUR BODY! OWN YOUR PLEASURE! YOU’RE SEXY AND YOU FUCKING KNOW IT!
WOMAN ON TOP
Anonymous: Hey, this is kind of awkward but I’ve seen that you give good advice so I hope that you can help me. The thing is that I would like to be on top but every time I do it just doesn’t feel good. It just doesn’t give me any pleasure but I would really like it to. So I guess that I just do something wrong… Any advice on how to do it better?
Pleasure from being on top, for women, begins with confidence above all. Riding a guy requires a level of self assurance and comfortableness with your sexual nature. You feel exposed up there and if you don’t let go of your inhibitions and allow the selfish desires of taking your pleasure exactly as you want, then it won’t work. Does that make sense?
It also takes practice. You learn something more about what you like and how moving this way with that angle feels better than going that way with the other angle, and so on. So you need to ride and ride and ride and ride him some more until you get it just right!
I’ve said this so many times, but I’ll say it yet again, being on top means YOU are in charge and it’s about YOUR pleasure. If you are feeling good, then he’s going to feel good! He’ll love seeing your reactions and watch as you ride his cock.
Get out of your head and be more in tune with your body. Focus on what feels good. Forget what you think you’re “supposed to do” when you’re on top, if it’s not working, then try something else, don’t linger. It’s all about you and finding out what you like when you’re up there. Not some misdirected idea of what he thinks is sexy or what you’ve seen in porn.
The most basic position for riding goes like this: Get on top of him, knees on either side, lean forward with your hands on his chest for leverage (it gives you more control over how deep you want to thrust as well), reach behind you to grab his cock and ease yourself down on him by sitting back a little bit, then rock back and forth on your knees in whatever way comes naturally to you. You can sit upright or hunch over him or lean all the way back on your hands and thrust away. You can face him or reverse it so he’s seeing your back. It takes practice to find a rhythm and prevent him from slipping all the way out of you. Completely normal. If you get tired, you can have him flip you over and keep going until you get your wind back and want to go again! It’s FUN!
Grinding when you’re on top is more likely to be pleasing for you. Try the ‘bump and grind’ which is basically thrusting your pelvis back and forth around in a circle (think 80’s rockstar?). This works for a lot of woman more than just up and down.
Grind back and forth / bounce up and down – that’s basically what it comes down to. This is YOUR time and YOU are in charge. He’s just there to watch at this point. Find your pleasure. Find what feels good. Don’t feel embarrassed about having to explore more to figure out what it is you like. Take your time. Move different ways. Encourage him to play with your breasts or rub your clit.
The best thing you can do is to be honest with your partner. Tell him you want to practice riding him! Seriously! Do it all night long! However long it takes to find out what you like. Once you figure it out, then he can come into the picture. Grinding is most likely going to be the best for you, but guys don’t get as much from it as we do because there’s not enough friction from grinding for them, so you’ll find a compromise. For now, just focus on you and what works for you then you can worry about him! 😉 Trust me, he’ll be MORE than okay with that!
Under the read more are some images of what different positions you can try on top to figure out what you like the best! Sometimes the visual helps more than an explanation. Once you see it, your imagination takes you to where you need to go. 😉
^ A pillow to change his position makes a difference!
^ You’re essentially straddling one leg and using it for leverage.
^ His legs are crossed Indian style and you’re sitting on his lap.
What are good sex positions to make girls orgasm?
It’s different for everyone! But here are some popular ones. (Psst…I’m assuming this is hetero, but if I’m wrong, I’ll post again for lesbians. I just assume hetero because straight women have a much more difficult time climaxing…)
1) Missionary / with a pillow under her ass
Why? Deeper penetration, easier thrusting, his pubic bone will hit her clit, and the higher the pillows/angle of penetration will increase stimulation of the G-spot.
2) Doggie style / on her stomach
Why? Increased friction as he moves in and out and she can grind her clitoral area against the bed. CLIT ACTION IS NECESSARY!
3) Crisscross / facing each other
Why? If she takes a long time to orgasm, this one is good because you don’t tire out as easily in this position. It’s more relaxed. Woman on her back. Man on his side and turned towards her. Woman should have both her legs over the man’s hips and thighs, making a bridge. Thrust easily until climax!
4) Reverse Cowgirl / WOMAN ON TOP IS BEST (so any position with her on top really)
Why? Ugh. So many reasons… The woman gets to dictate the pace and the depth of thrusting. There’s easy access to the clit. She can touch it, he can touch it, or his pubic bone will rub against it. With Reverse Cowgirl, the woman should put her legs together instead of full on straddling. The tighter the fit, the more intense the sensation. Also, there’s increased G-Spot stimulation, so that combined with the clit action makes a very happy lady!
5) Spooning / side by side
Why? Intimate. Creates a tighter fit. Allows the man to explore more with his hands, including stimulating the clit, breasts, etc. It’s less moving in and out and more staying inside her with shallow thrusts. Cuddly. G-Spot stimulation. Need I go on?
6) Butterfly / Counter Top / Modified Missionary (so many names for one damn thing)
Why? Visual stimulation for both. The angle is great for deep penetration. If you do it on a counter top or a desk, the change of pace from the usual bedroom is exciting. There’s G-Spot stimulation. This can also be done on the edge of the bed with the man standing. He can lift the woman’s ass and drive into her at a great angle that she’ll love!
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