Okay so I’m a 15 year old girl and i have these like inner lips or what ever they are called in my vag that are long and ugly but idk if they will naturally just go away or if they will stay, idk but they make me really self conscious about my vagina. Idk if you can help or what but i need some reassurance. Please!

First off, the correct terminology for your “inner lips” is the “inner labia” or “labia minora”, but I think the second one sounds stupid – like it’s a moon in another galaxy or something… Sheesh. There’s also the “outer labia”.

Second, your vagina is not ugly. Unless you can somehow bounce a ball on your labia like a trampoline, then there is no problem and you are perfectly normal!

We are trained to believe that there is one NORMAL type of V and that’s the one we see in porn. SO FALSE! Women in porn are, for the most part, very similar when it comes to their bodies. As are men. That’s why they were hired. They fit someone’s standard of “most appealing” and made sure everyone became a carbon copy. It sucks, it’s misleading, and it trains its viewers to like one thing and one thing only – everything else is “wrong” or “weird”. WE MUST CHANGE THIS!

There are, arguably, 30 different types of vaginas, with different shapes, sizes, and colors.

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Labia come in all shapes and sizes. Most women aren’t symmetrical down there, and it’s incredibly common for a woman’s inner labia to protrude beyond the outer labia. So believe me when I tell you that your pussy is fabulous and just as it should be.

And you wanna hear something even better? YOU’RE LUCKY. You’ve seen how many women come onto this blog and ask me about how to orgasm, right? Orgasms don’t come easily for most. Well, you’re going to find out something different.

The type of labia you have, with longer inner lips, actually makes sex better! The inner labia are chock-full of nerve endings, and they encase the clitoral head, which means that during sex, there’s a whole lot more friction going on. Friction = stimulation = BIG O’s. When you’re ready to have sex someday, you’re going to be very pleased to discover just how nice that feels… (Don’t you dare have sex yet! You’re only 15! Waiting will not kill you and I promise, sex will be so much better if you wait a few years.)

Love the V. Worship the V. Accept the V!

Being self conscious over something that is REALLY not a big deal to others isn’t worth your time. You have a normal vagina that holds many pleasures so please go explore it and find out all about it until someday (in the distant future) when you’re ready for someone else to go spelunking down there for you. 😉