First, think about what you like and what you would want done to you. That’s your starting point. If you’ve had someone eat you out before, pick through the good points and the bad points and apply it here.
I answered a guy about this with some tips a while ago and even though it’s for a slightly more specific situation, it still applies for you as well. So read here.
– The biggest mistake you can make is letting it be all about the clit. The clit is super important, yes!, but it’s not the only thing down there! Use your mouth and tongue to explore EVERYTHING.
– Tease a little bit before you dive right in. Lick up her thighs, kiss your way up her thighs, and kiss the outside of her lips before spreading her open. Feeling your breath on her there or close to there will drive her wild.
– Use your tongue. Your whole tongue. Flatten it out. Use just the tip. Lick her like an ice cream cone. Flick it. Use gentle strokes. As her excitement builds, add more pressure. Focus more on the area around her clit instead of the clit directly.
– You can take her clit in your mouth. Suck gently. Release. Gentle flicking can send her over the edge.
– Use your hands. Place your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth. Reach up and stroke her nipples. Slip a finger in, then two, or three, depending on how tight she is. Start slow, work your way up to a steady, faster pace. To stimulate her G-Spot, have your palm facing up and hook your fingers towards the top of her channel, massaging the spongy-like spot there (it’s about 3cm in). Remember, what your fingers are doing need to be done in tune with what your tongue is doing. Both together will send her flying.
– Circles. Do you know what I mean by circles? You should know.
– Rhythm is be all end all. You want to ALWAYS have a rhythm going. Be it the motion of your fingers in time with the flicks of your tongue or the way you lap at her, anything! Everything needs to be done at a steady and increasing or decreasing pace. Work her up, let her down, bring her back up again, (and shake it all about?).
– Pay attention to how she reacts. If she raises her hips to meet your lips, GOOD. She should be getting wet and her pussy lips should swell a bit with arousal. If she starts moaning and trembling, keep doing what you’re doing. Rapid breathing and writhing around are good things. Duhhhh. If she grabs your hair and pushes you in for more, things are definitely going well. Listen to her breathing, watch her muscle contractions, take note of what her hands and her body is doing.
– If you feel a bit lost or unsure, talk to her, ask her to direct you to where she wants you to be. Ask her what she wants, what she likes. Or maybe you just want a verbal confirmation that you’re on the right track. That’s fine! Communication is key. You just want to be able to utilize both verbal and non-verbal forms of communication. All women are different and ultimately complex. Some women love having their clits stroked, others are too sensitive. What turned her on one day, may not work the next. Some want penetration, some don’t! So talk, be in tune with her responses, and have fun with it. Don’t psych yourself out. This is something enjoyable and something for you to play with, not to freak out over with every excruciating detail.
Go forth and eat pussy!
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