Sometimes my boyfriend doesn’t ‘finish’. Some days it’ll be within a minute or so, and some not at all. He isn’t masturbating, there is no stress (we live together and are together 24/7) so idk what it could be. Is it that he doesn’t find me attractive or is there another reason? I’ve tried talking about It with him, and he says he honestly doesn’t know what it is. It’s kinda lowered my self confidence abit, aswell as my sex drive

I have no idea. Is he lying about masturbating? He could be. But it could also be a medical issue. Maybe he’s having some emotional/psychological issues that he doesn’t want to admit to. Who knows?

It’s not you. He needs to figure out what’s going on and how to fix it. You can’t fix this for him.

It’s not you.

I have a really sensitive clit and I don’t last very long while masturbating (I know it doesn’t really affect my partner) but is there any way I can prolong my orgasm? Whenever I try to go slow it seems like I can’t find the right spot? I’m talking only minutes to get off. I checked your sex advice page and I didn’t find anything along the lines of it. Thank you!

Wait, you’re complaining about orgasming TOO QUICKLY?

Hun…YOU’RE A WOMAN, NOT A MAN. Have fucking 10 orgasms then! 20!!! Why on earth would you stop at one??? Have them over and over and over again! Our bodies are built for it!

YOU’VE BEEN GIVEN A GIFT! USE IT!!!!!!