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So.. last night me and my friend went to a party we got really drink and we made out for a while she ate me out and had an orgasm I liked it. and i’m so confused right now am I a lesbian? we haven’t talked since it happend and i’m so confused like I’ve never even had sex before and urgg

Does it matter?

You had sex with a girl and you liked it. Okay. Do you want to date her? Do you want to have sex with her again? You can do all of that and then if it doesn’t work out then maybe later down the line you’ll find a boy you’re attracted to and date/have sex with him. Maybe you’ll like that more, maybe you’ll like being with a girl more, maybe you’ll like both for the different pleasures it gave you!

Don’t rush into a gay panic. Enjoying sex with a girl simply means that you enjoyed having sex with that one particular girl. It does NOT mean that you now have to swear off boys forever, cut your hair like Justin Bieber, and eternally doom your closet to plaid button downs. (JOKING.) I mean, really, calm down. You’re not a lesbian just because you enjoyed having someone go down on you. It’s a very pleasurable sex act…

Focus on whether or not you actually want to be with the girl you had sex with. Not because she’s a girl, but because you like her, you’re attracted to her, and you want to do all those things you do with a bf/gf – cuddle, kiss, fuck, hold her hand, cry on her shoulder, bring her soup when she’s sick, dance with her at a club, talk to her about everything and anything, laugh until you cry, sit on her lap even when there’s plenty of room elsewhere, etc.

If that’s not what you want, then you’ll meet someone else you’re attracted to. Could be a guy. Could be a girl. Just go with it. We like people for being who they are, not for being a certain gender.

Want to give my first blowjob. What do i do with my tongue and the head of his penis? He gives really good oral i want to return the favor, what will drive him crazy?

All right, tips you asked for, tips you get!

  • Warm the head of his penis with your breath. This is a sensual way of saying “hello.” Use your tongue then for long licks along the underside of the penis.
  • Spend extra time licking and pressing your tongue into the area right underneath the head (there’s a little V there).
  • Remember that the head is more sensitive than the shaft. Take it in your mouth and swirl your tongue around the rim.
  • Don’t try to deep throat, especially not on your first try. It’s not gonna work and most women can’t ever learn to do it. You can try to work up to it over time, but just forget about it for now.
  • Do not suck hard. Some suction is good, but to “suck a guy off” is more a figure of speech than a guaranteed technique.
  • Keep a lot of saliva in your mouth. Guys love those wet slippery cavities. (As do we all…)
  • After playing briefly with the head, slide your mouth down the shaft. Use your hand at the base of the penis to cover what you can’t get in your mouth. Let your saliva lubricate your manual stroking.
  • Be fairly light as you go down, firmer as you come up. Then switch it up! Firm going down, lighter coming up. Variety is nice, so swirl, swish, lap and lick. Vary speed and firmness. Find a rhythm, but don’t keep doing exactly the same thing.
  • With your fingertips, tickle behind the his testicles…also it’s a good area to lick.
  • I’ve said this before, but ENTHUSIASM is the best thing you can do to make it special for a guy. Be noisy (but don’t overdo it – you’re not in a porno!). Let the sounds you make show him how much you’re enjoying it. When your mouth is not full, ask him for suggestions. Guys love giving directions when it comes to their cock.
  • If you want to swallow, you can, but it’s COMPLETELY OKAY not to. It’s your choice. Since it’s your first BJ, my advice would be to have him ejaculate somewhere else. It’s a bit overwhelming for a first time so don’t put that pressure on yourself.

Have a good one! 😉

Awk question but I’m in college and have giving two blow jobs in my life… not exactly experienced. Can you give me some tips? PLEASE. I want to be good…. ah!

How to Give the Best Blowjobs

^That gives you some specific details to focus on. But the biggest tip I can give? Even if you hate giving a guy head, pretend to love it.

Fake it with the best of them. Because even if you really don’t like the act itself, you do enjoy giving someone else pleasure, so it’s all the same in the end.

Go to town on his dick like it is the best fucking popsicle you’ve ever tasted. Lick, suck, tease, bob, play with him, do EVERYTHING. In fact, act like it’s your new favorite toy and it’s yours to do what you want with.

Your enthusiasm and passion is half of his pleasure. If he thinks you love his cock that’s going to turn him on 10x more than any trick you’ve got with your mouth. Just the truth.

One more thing? Different guys like different stuff, so don’t make the mistake of doing “one style fits all”.  Ie. some guys like you to start off slow and teasing, then go for it with gusto. Others want you to skip the teasing and jump right into the swing of it. Some want this fondled, some want that touched, and so on. There’s no ONE way to give a blow job. Listening and being aware of the other person’s responses and reactions is the best way for you to learn what pleases them the most and therefore give them the best head possible.

Go forth and suck!