NO! It’s not bad! Not at all! At least 10-20% of ALL women have inverted or flat nipples. It’s normal, in the same way that the color and size of areola differ from woman to woman. It’s nothing more than just a little quirk that makes your breasts YOURS. I can’t even begin to explain to you how many different kinds of breasts there are. Actually! I take that back.
How many women are there in the world? Let’s round up and say 4 billion, okay? That’s how many different kinds of breasts there are in the world. 4 BILLION. (Even the surgically enhanced women do not have identical breasts.)
Every single woman has something unique about their breasts that makes them different from the woman standing next to them. Are inverted nipples as common as some other things? No. But what difference does it make? Your partner will not care about one nipple being hidden. They want to play with your boobs. The want to squeeze and grope and lick and suck. If they can do that, they will be happy as can be!
The embarrassment stems from you and how you’re perceiving yourself, not (potential) sex partners judging you. You’re only getting in the way of yourself by making it into something shameful and weird. Nipples aren’t going to make or break the deal. It’s really not the big deal you’re making it out to be in your head.
So do what you need to do to feel better about it and take ownership of it. Don’t let it be some giant pink elephant in the room where they see you naked and you let your imagination run wild with all the things that you think they’re judging you on. Confront it! Tell them you have an inverted nipple and you’re shy about it. Show them. Let them convince you how much of a big deal it’s NOT. Honesty and openness will make any sexual experience you have so much better. They’re not going to be “turned off” or “weirded out” by it, I can absolutely promise you that.
You are normal.
There is nothing wrong with you or your nipples. Got it?
Sumptuous Daydreams 