Tag: jacking off

hey, i’m a guy and i love jacking off, but its becoming boring, what are some ways to make it better, without having to buy anything specifically marketed as a sex toy. like what household products other than lubricants can make it feel better? or anything else you can do while jacking off?

Try different places and positions when you’re jacking off. Instead of just in your chair or on your bed, do it somewhere else. Stand in your backyard and beat off! lol. Just try anyplace new and a new position to break out of the rut.

Also, if you watch the same kind of porn, stop watching it. Instead try using your imagination rather than visual stimulation. Fantasize. Also, you can try watching something really different. If you’re straight, watch gay porn! If you’re gay, watch straight porn! Seriously, anything to change it up. I’m not promising it will work, but you should always keep an open mind.

Now, you can get REALLY creative with household items. You have a plethora of options available to you. I’ll suggest a few and then you should take a look through what you have and open your mind to the possibilities…

-A banana. No, I’m not messing with you. Cut the tip off and squirt the inside out. Pop it in the microwave for a few seconds to warm it up (not too long or you’ll burn yourself!). Then fill it with some kind of lube, doesn’t matter what, wrap the sections around your cock, or shove your load into the hole, and pump away! IT WORKS!

-Fuck your pillows. Stack them on top of each other or side-by-side. Lie on top and go to town. You also can use just one; mold it around your dick and thrust against it. Try couch cushions too. Put your cock in between the cushions (standing or kneeling) or slip it underneath the cushions. Crammed in between, you control the resistance as you press into the tight crevice.

– Use a hot, wet towel in the shower to jerk off into. The weight and moist cocooned warmth will feel awesome. Better than the standard shower jack off.

– More food… No, I’m not going to tell you to fuck a pie. Fuck a large cucumber! Or a melon, squash, watermelon, honeydew, cantaloupe, and so on… Cut a hole to fit your cock in one side, and a smaller opening the size of a pencil in the other. Hollow out the inside to fit you and then fuck that squishy goodness. You can put your finger over the smaller hole and remove it to adjust the suction to simulate the effect of getting a BJ. Bonus points for warming them up in the microwave beforehand. (Remember, not more than a few seconds! You’ll burn yourself!)

– Get a plastic baggie and fill it with something like Crisco, Vaseline, Jell-O, or banana pulp (if you’ve tried the first suggestion, then you already have that on hand!). Hold it in your preferred hand and stuff yourself in there. Fuck away!

– Get a stuffed animal, cut a hole in the bottom, and fuck the stuffing out of it. Yeah, I made a pun. 😉

Like I said, you have a ton of different things you can try. You just have to think outside of the box! If it’s getting old, there’s always something new to experiment with. (Just be safe and make wise choices about what you’re putting your cock in.)

KEEPING IT UP

When in intercourse, my dick sometimes start unhardening so theres much less pleasure for both of us. Any thoughts on why that happens? Is it because I have more pleasure when I masturbate?

There’s several different factors that are a possibility as to why you might go soft during sex.

1) You’ve been drinking.

2) You’re stressed out and your mind is on other things. If it’s money or sports or family, etc. If you’re not in the moment, that could very well be the cause – especially if you don’t have a problem while masturbating.

3) Depending on your age, it could possibly be the beginning of ED (Erectile Dysfunction), in which case you would want to talk to your doctor about it. I doubt that’s it though.

4) You’re masturbating way too much and you need to cut back. Think of it like this: if you’ve been stranded in a desert for six days without water and you finally stumble across a spring, wouldn’t that be the absolute greatest drink of water you’ve ever had? Now imagine you haven’t masturbated or had sex for six days, and suddenly your girlfriend bends over and begs you to fuck her, don’t you think that you’ll experience one of the most mind-boggling orgasms of your life?

It’s about sensory deprivation for pleasure and you’re engaging in sensory overload which decreases your pleasure. If you’re jacking off every day or more than once a day, then sex isn’t going to have that much enjoyment for you because you’re all juiced out. Masturbation is great, yes, but fucking your girlfriend is better!

Also, when you masturbate really roughly with a hard grip and squeezing the head of your dick, it takes away from the sensation of entering something softer like the vagina. You’ve grown too accustomed to the pressure of your hand and pussy isn’t as forceful so you lose the sensation. CUT BACK ON JACKING OFF! And go easier on your dick. Masturbating should be about training your dick for sex, not ruining it. Stroke it gently, not aggressively. You want to increase your endurance and allow for pleasure, not completely ruin it for yourself.