All right, tips you asked for, tips you get!
- Warm the head of his penis with your breath. This is a sensual way of saying “hello.” Use your tongue then for long licks along the underside of the penis.
- Spend extra time licking and pressing your tongue into the area right underneath the head (there’s a little V there).
- Remember that the head is more sensitive than the shaft. Take it in your mouth and swirl your tongue around the rim.
- Don’t try to deep throat, especially not on your first try. It’s not gonna work and most women can’t ever learn to do it. You can try to work up to it over time, but just forget about it for now.
- Do not suck hard. Some suction is good, but to “suck a guy off” is more a figure of speech than a guaranteed technique.
- Keep a lot of saliva in your mouth. Guys love those wet slippery cavities. (As do we all…)
- After playing briefly with the head, slide your mouth down the shaft. Use your hand at the base of the penis to cover what you can’t get in your mouth. Let your saliva lubricate your manual stroking.
- Be fairly light as you go down, firmer as you come up. Then switch it up! Firm going down, lighter coming up. Variety is nice, so swirl, swish, lap and lick. Vary speed and firmness. Find a rhythm, but don’t keep doing exactly the same thing.
- With your fingertips, tickle behind the his testicles…also it’s a good area to lick.
- I’ve said this before, but ENTHUSIASM is the best thing you can do to make it special for a guy. Be noisy (but don’t overdo it – you’re not in a porno!). Let the sounds you make show him how much you’re enjoying it. When your mouth is not full, ask him for suggestions. Guys love giving directions when it comes to their cock.
- If you want to swallow, you can, but it’s COMPLETELY OKAY not to. It’s your choice. Since it’s your first BJ, my advice would be to have him ejaculate somewhere else. It’s a bit overwhelming for a first time so don’t put that pressure on yourself.
Have a good one! 😉
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