Tag: body
Is it normal that I am 16 and I masturbate every day? Should I wind down? Do it less? Is it okay/normal that my vagina is red after it? (Probably from all the rubbing) that goes on there while things are in action.. help! I’m a bit worried ..
Totally normal! You’re fine! Don’t worry so much.Masturbating is a healthy and fun activity. Plus, it’s always better to learn as much as you can about your body to prepare for future sexual encounters. Practice makes perfect!
Some women have a vagina that “blushes” more noticeably so, yes, redness is normal as well. As long as there’s no itching or rash involved – just red from stimulation.
Carry on, soldier! š
What do I do with foreskin while giving a guy head or a hand job? Does it come up and down with whatever motion I’m doing or do I just push it to the bottom and try to avoid it or what? Thanks <3
Foreskin isnāt anything to worry about. Itās a natural part of the penis. Itāll go along with whatever youāre doing. š Itās actually easier to give a handjob to a guy whoās uncut because you donāt need as much lube, the foreskin is a natural way for you to slide your hand up and down. Just take care not to be OVERLY rough because if you pull it back too far, thatās painful. So take it slow and see how he reacts, then you can up the pace!
Some ideasā¦
– If you hold the shaft and move up and down, the foreskin will slide up and down over the head.
– You can also pull the foreskin down below the head of the penis, then use short strokes up and down keeping the head exposed.
– One moreā¦ You can pull the foreskin all the way up so it covers the head, use short strokes with one hand, and finger/play around with the bunched up foreskin using your free hand.
As always, the best way to give someone pleasure is to ask them what they like. Everybody likes something different so treat each and every guy as a learning experience. Ask him to show you what he likes, how he wants you to do it. It can be really hot to see him touch himself and itās great for you to know exactly how to please him (and throw in a few personal touches of your own to surprise him!).
Play around with it. Explore. Have fun! Donāt be afraid of foreskin! Itās not an alien. Itās just an extra couple of inches of skin. THATāS IT.
If i masturbate often (clitoral) can that make me lose sensitivity? Like will that make my orgasms become less intense
For women, no. (Men: see below.) The whole experience changes the more often you masturbate and have sex because you start to learn different things about how your body works AND you also start to RECOGNIZE the feelings that are building up in you.
When you first start masturbating, all the feelings and sensations are so new and overwhelming, you have no idea what to do with them and how to process it. Later on, you know what to expect, the newness isnāt there anymore, HOWEVER, this does not mean less sensitivity.
You actually experience more powerful orgasms as you experiment sexually because you figure out how to maximize your pleasure. Itās just a different feeling than the first few times you had an orgasm because back then it was NEW, not stronger, just NEW. Women donāt lose sensitivity, we gain experience.
MEN! Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for you! Yes, you do lose sensitivity when you masturbate frequently – especially when you jack off roughly. If you grip yourself too hard and youāre too āFULL THROTTLE!ā when you beat off, you lose sensitivity in your dick and it makes it more difficult for you to cum when actually having sex. What good is a soft, warm pussy when your hand has had your dick in a vice grip every other day of the week? Youāre fucking yourself over and not in a good way!
Guys, take the foot off the pedal when jacking off. Do it less frequently and loosen your damn grip. If all you want is your hand to share your nights with, then by all means, ignore what Iām trying to tell you. š
Recently my girlfriend and I tried anal, and for the first time in her life she cam, which means she has been wanting a lot more anal sex. I did not want to worry her too much as I have heard of it before, but when we are having anal sex there is usually a white discharge from her anus on my penis (I know it is NOT semen). What is this discharge and is it a bad sign for her or I?
Are you sure it’s not just lathered up lube? It tends gets all worked up and looks like discharge, but it’s just the lube coming out as a blob.
If it’s not that or semen, or semen mixed with lube, then there’s a possibility it could be a type of mucous that the body creates naturally in response to constipation and sometimes anal sex triggers that secretion. If that’s the case, there’s still no cause for concern. It’s normal, not unhealthy, and won’t hurt you or her.
You should tell her what happened anyway because if it continues, then there might be something going on with her health-wise (IBS or something) and she would want to get it checked on. No need to freak her out, but you have to be up front about it!
I’ve heard about it happening a lot so I don’t think there’s something wrong, but I’m not a doctor so this is just one layperson’s opinion.
i figured this is the perfect place to vent/ask about my insecurity bc you’re so friendly and helpful. its the hair on my body; i know that many girls have body hair but not as bad as me :( i really wanna have sex i’m horny all the time but i would be too afraid bc of the hair like it’s on my boobs my stomach my lower back and WORST OF ALL: my butt! kissing and touching my stomach/butt wouldn’t be fun because the guy would be grossed out. i cant afford laser removal treatment!:( it sucksss :’/
If it bothers you that much, then wax it all. Have a standing monthly appointment. And if you’re embarrassed to have them do it, TRUST ME – THESE PEOPLE HAVE SEEN IT ALL (and worse) – so just wax it all.
It’s just hair though – not an infectious disease. HAIR. Everyone has it. You’re not a leper.
Don’t go through drastic measures just because you think people won’t find you attractive, because they will find you attractive. But if this is something you need to do to make YOU feel better and more confident and feel sexier, then go ahead.
Just always remember: it. is. just. hair.
That’s all.
what if a guy massages his own prostate as he jacks off? is that gay?
NO!
It’s called PLEASURE. Jeez! Men and women have different erotic hot spots. The prostate is a major hot spot for men, there’s a concentration of nerve endings there. Too many men are insecure about their sexuality which leads to questions like yours: is it a “gay thing” to massage my prostate?
Stimulating the prostate actually intensifies a man’s orgasm and can delay ejaculation which makes it a good thing for BOTH parties involved! Men have their “g-spot” there, just as women have their own “g-spot”. It’s absurd to deny yourself pleasure just because you think it’s this weird, stigma thing that will turn you gay if you try it.
No! You have an erotic hot spot, use it! More women would absolutely utilize it during sex if guys weren’t so uptight about it. They really would not have a problem with slipping a finger up there while giving you a BJ. It’s the “taboo” weirdness that straight guys place on it that ends up making you ignore a really fantastic source of pleasure. This is not about your sexuality! It’s about orgasms and making them better! It’s WHO you want to fuck, not HOW you fuck.
Anal play does not make you gay. Having sex with men makes you gay.
It’s really that simple.
My boyfriend wants to eat me out and I’m totally on board with it. I guess I wanted to check with you (my tumblr sexpert lol) and get pubic hair advice? I’ve shaved down there before and it ends up itchy and once it starts growing back I can’t shave it again until it’s longer because it pulls on the hairs and hurts. So, would it be more enjoyable for him if I was shaved down there or can I simply trim? I understand it’s my body and my choice, I just want to maximize the experience for both of us
Every guy is different. Some like it completely shaved, others appreciate a bush, it’s a very personal preference. Why don’t you try asking him what he’d like? It’s your decision, obviously, but if it doesn’t matter to you one way or the other then why not get his thoughts on it?
If you want to avoid the prickly regrowth issue, shave the same day you plan to have him go down on you. Hair really isn’t that big of a deal as long as you keep it neat and maintained! How much you want to shave is up to you and your partner’s preference.
It is nice to ask them what they like because they’re the ones down there doing the work, but it still doesn’t mean they can dictate what you do. It’s just an opinion to take into consideration. š
Check the tags to see my tips on shaving pubic hair!
Is it possible (as a girl) to get cut if you shave with an electric razor? Also can you recommend a good razor?
Thereās always a chance of getting nicked if you use a razor. If you use an electric one, make sure itās one specifically desigened for removing pubic hair.
I donāt shave, I wax. But for a regular razor I always use Venus Embrace (the green one).
okay lately ive been having a huge issue. at first I thought it was crabs but I have no pubic hair so it couldn’t be. my labias itch extremely badly, to the point where I have to sit down and itch for quite a few minutes. only the lips itch, nothing internal. they also seem more dry then normal. its become super uncomfortable and I hate it. im 16 and am sexually active with my boyfriend… he has been with other people but I know he doesn’t have an std. thoughts?
Okay, well thereās an easy answer and then a more complicated one.
Easy: Itchiness is common when pubic hair is growing back. You said you have none, so that means you shave or wax. Your hair starts growing back very quickly and it usually gets itchy.
Or it could just be dry skin! Like you would have anywhere else.
Complicated: Youāre right, it could be an STI, a bacterial infection, or a yeast infection. So make an appointment with your doctor. Read here about another possible cause. Unless you have the results of your boyfriendās STI screening in your hand that proves he doesnāt have anything, then Iām sorry, but you still have to consider him a risk.
Either way, if it concerns you enough to ask me, then it means you need to talk to your doctor and figure out for sure whatās going on down there. Whatever it is, you need to know for sure in case you require treatment. Iām not a medical professional so I canāt help you here.
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