Tag: Anonymous

Sexy story, my hubby & I were stuck in traffic on a seven mile long bridge in the Florida Keys. I started making out with him. Then pulled his cock out of his shorts and hiked up my skirt and climbed on top of him. We had amazingly hot sex right then and there. When the traffic started moving the car behind us which was full of guys, passed us blowing the horn while they all waved and shouted. I couldn’t stop laughing. We still talk about it and laugh.

I keep fantasizing about having sex with my best friend’s younger brother. Just recently I wanna creep over to his room at night or flirt w him. There’s this awkward tension between idk if he knows or something

I was in a dress today and since no one was home I did put on underwear. While I was reaching under my bed for my shoes my boyfriends dog started licking my pussy. His tongue felt so good, I think I’ll let him do it again… Bye.

You do you, anon.

My bf and I have been together for 2 years and I love him with all my heart. And we have a very active sex life with each other but he always finishes within a few minutes right as I’m on the verge of having an orgasm. For the first year I was okay with it, then I just started getting pissed off, and tonight I actually feel a little depressed because we even tried buying stuff to make him last longer and it didn’t work. Am I wrong for feeling upset? And is there anything we can do?

Well, I’ve posted some tips before about guys staying power here. So try some of them. You need to talk to him about this. Not in an argument where you blame him for not waiting for you, but calmly where you explain how it’s making you feel.

Not “you can’t fucking hold on for another minute to let me get off for once!?!?” but “every time you finish before me, it makes me feel like you don’t care if I get anything out of it, that you don’t care about my pleasure or satisfaction and that really hurts”.

See the difference?

You’re not wrong for feeling upset. It’s demoralizing when it happens every single time and never changes. It makes you feel like he’s not trying hard enough or that he doesn’t care to try harder. That’s upsetting! And after a year of the same thing happening every time, that really starts to hit you. You just want to cum before him once, goddammit! 😉 It messes up the whole build and climax point when he finishes and then you maybe get a quick rush job to finish you off after. You end up with no orgasm or a sub-par one. Certainly not the one you both had been working towards before he blew it! lol.

So read the tips on staying power. Talk to him about what you’re feeling. Show or tell him about the tips and see if he’s willing to give it a try. You’ve been together for two years, if you guys have a solid relationship, I can’t imagine that he would refuse trying when you present it this way.

If it doesn’t work then maybe a good compromise is to have him get you to orgasm first (with his mouth and/or fingers). Then once you’ve cum, his dick will come into play – but not until you’ve orgasmed first! He can wait until you’ve gotten at least one under your belt. The great thing about women is that we don’t need a refractory period and a second, third orgasm is much easier to get after the first one so it’s not like you can’t cum again WITH him. At least this way your needs are being attended to fairly.

So, my boyfriend has only had 2 sexual partners, including me. He was with the other girl for a few years so he’s been able to make her cum. I’ve been with multiple guys and never been able to cum. By boyfriend is really upset that he’s never been able to do it for me and it’s something we actually fight a lot about. The thing is that I’m not in to masturbating and I’m not sure how to guide him because what I like always changes. Any advice?

Hm, first I wouldn’t be so sure about the other one orgasming. Women tend to lie about it in order to not hurt their male partner’s feelings. It’s not a good thing to do and gives the men a skewed perception of what works and what doesn’t, but I do understand WHY women do it. When it comes down to it, sometime it’s just easier to tell that little white lie instead of the drama that comes with admitting that you didn’t “finish”. Sometimes you just want to sleep, dammit!

I digress.

I’ve given a lot of tips in the sex advice tags about orgasms and different positions to try. So check that out (including the “how to” tag!). The best advice I can give you is to keep trying different things.

– Be as relaxed as possible. Don’t think too much. Don’t try to control what your body is feeling. Give in to the pleasure – let go. Many women (without realizing it) actually fight against their own orgasms because it almost feels wrong to let our bodies take over without being able to keep a handle on it. No handles! No nothing! BE FREE!

– Find a rhythm and keep it.

– Experiment with going harder or slower (sometimes hard and rough will shock your system into a surprise orgasm, taking over before you have a chance to think too much – slow can build some of the most intense orgasms if you have the time).

Focus on your breathing – breathing deeply and evenly – as if you’re trying to draw the pleasure deeper into your body that way. You will actually feel your pleasure expand through your body as you draw deeper breaths.

I love my girlfriend but I’ve always found my other female friend incredibly hot and she flirts with me all the time so sometimes i don’t feel bad checking her out.

…that’s your naughtiest confession?

This disappoints me. I think you can do better than that.

I went over to a friends house to hangout with a group and ended up having sex on the concrete floor in his basement in a room with antique toys with another guy

Sex in Norman Bates’ basement with dolls watching!?!?!

Sounds like a scene from American Horror story…kudos.

You get so many people sharing stories about bad relationships I figured I’d share a happy one. My bf loves going down on me and never expects me to down on him, he’s such a sweet guy and always puts my needs first. They exist ladies, never settle!

There’s a difference between a happy story and just bragging, girl… Come on now.

If you wanna share happy, sexy stories with me, please do! Give details, describe the conversation, the setting, what was really great about it. TELL A FULL STORY! I’d love to hear them. 🙂