Hey(: I was just wondering; do guys mind when girls have stretch marks? I have them on both sides of my butt and it’s not something I’m too comfortable with.

I can tell you that it, personally, doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I have some too. And lots of guys have stretch marks as well. They’re like little scars. Are we really going to be SO SHALLOW as to be put off by someone’s scars? We all have them.

Many guys that I know aren’t bothered by stretch marks, but I can’t speak for all guys. What I can tell you that if someone is put off by some stretch marks…they’ve saved you the time and trouble of having to get to know them.

Is it normal to get horny during thunderstorms? Every time there’s a heavy storm, I feel the need to get myself off all the damn time until the storm ends. It doesn’t help when I have to wake up early, but I can’t get to sleep.

Everyone’s got their thing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting horny during storms, lol. Enjoy it!

I like watching lesbian, straight and gay porn, im a girl.. Does that make me bisexual? Or is that weird of me? I’m sorry, im so scarred, i know my mother wont really accept me being bisexual..

I will direct you to this answer as well as the sexuality tag.

ok so i’m a girl and i have a boyfriend and i’ve had sex with a guy, but not a girl. i get super horny watching lesbian porn and masturbate to it cause i can’t get turned on by straight porn. idk what to do cause is having lesbian sex as great as it looks?

Yes it is and you should try it.

Should I give in? I really love sex, I even pleasure myself like every damn day. But I do not want to do it casually. I want to have sex with burning passion and love. I feel so pressured to do it because my friends were hooking up casually. Should I take the plunge too?

I think you should do whatever is going to make you feel good, happy,
and proud of yourself. If you want to have sex just to have sex, do it.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. But if you know that you
might regret doing it, then don’t. Just wait.

Three months from now: will you be happy about it?

1 year from now: will you feel a little bummed that you didn’t wait?

4
years from now: will you think: “wow, I was such an idiot for needing
to be just like my friends and hooked up with that loser that one time”?

You
said yourself that you didn’t want it to be casual. If that’s really
what you want then stand by it and the time will come when you meet
someone you want to take the plunge with. Wait for someone good. 🙂
That’s my advice. They won’t be the love of your life. You don’t even
need it to be a long term relationship. Just make sure it’s someone good.

Hello, perhaps you could help me to figure some things out. How does a lesbian sex, or rather a lack of heterosexual intercourse, affect woman’s health? I mean hormones level and such. Thank you in advance and sorry if this seem like a stupid question.

Lesbians are way healthier.

They have more orgasms.

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Not having a dick in you has absolutely no bearing on your hormone levels or your health. Not even in the same realm of science.

I’m completely in love with my best friend and she has a boyfriend. I thought she was straight so I figured I had no chance (I’m also a girl), but she came onto me when she stayed over the other night. She took her shirt off and had her hand between my legs, but I stopped it before it went to far. She later told me her sexuality is fluid. The whole thing messed with my head, and I have no idea what to do.

You are experiencing what is known as a lesbian miracle.

Or the plot of MTV’s Faking It…

ANYWAY.

You didn’t stop it before it went too far. You are soooooo very past that point. The moment her lips came near you and her hand went between your legs ended any chance of your “just friends” status. The only thing to do now is to take it and go with it. She’s your best friend. You love her. She’s reciprocated. Time to find out what’s there beyond friendship.

(She needs to cut the bf loose before you do anything else though. Starting it off with dishonesty and you feeling like a dirty secret will only serve to hurt you both.)

Whenever I get horny and turned on, before anyone even touches me, I get these deep aching pains in my vagina. Is this normal? Because it didn’t always used to happen until somewhat recently

No, that is not normal and usually indicative of a problem going on. I would make an appointment with your gynecologist and have it checked out. It could be nothing or it could be a symptom of something real happening (ie. ovarian cysts, inflammatory pelvic disease, something with your uterus, etc.) Get it checked out. Better to know than to be in pain and speculating.

Does it take longer for women to cum? My boyfriend does a good job when we’re doing it, but I don’t really cum as often as he does. He always tries his best

For most women, it does take more time (and more effort) to reach orgasm. But it’s not IMPOSSIBLE or excruciatingly difficult. You just have to experiment to find out what specifically does it for you.

Work together to make sure you orgasm more often, don’t leave it all on his shoulders. He needs you to guide him and then he’ll start figuring out even more on his own. 🙂