Author: sumptuousdaydreams

I assumed brunettes because you post Caprice. It’s wonderful that you love based on personality it makes for a wise person ,then “what attributes would you lean too?” As you said you do prefer girls most of the time ( I’m also Bi, hurts sometimes in non-sexual relationships because of stereotypes, well you know ) so yeah i was just wondering about characteristics ,but as you said personalities make for a grounded relationship. So I guess I’ll ask “what personalities do you prefer?”

Okay, I never said I prefer girls. Someone messaged me, claiming that I did, and I didn’t respond one way or the other. I’ve also never claimed to be bi. Just saying.

But, yes, I generally find brunettes more sexually appealing. You got me! haha. Doesn’t mean I don’t like blondes though!

I can’t say what kind of personalities I prefer because every single person on the planet is so unique in their own way. There’s no answer to that question. It’s all about who you’re drawn to, who you make a connection with, and they’re all going to be different.

What kind of looks are you infatuated with in a person ? I’m just gonna hang out on a limb and suggest you may be into brunettes.

I’m not naive enough to limit myself to a physical “type” because I’ve always been attracted to people for their personality rather than their hair color or their bodies.

Generally, I do lean towards some attributes more than others, but that can change in the blink of an eye depending on the person’s personality.

Curious…why do you assume brunettes?

imageelizabethjackson2012 replied to your post: theres this one guy that i have sex with and he is…

You should never be afraid to tell your partner if something hurts or makes you uncomfortable. If they love you, they wouldn’t want to hurt you. It doesn’t have to come across as a criticism. Just say, “Gently please baby… softly.”

theres this one guy that i have sex with and he is unbelievably beyond sexy, and the sex is amazing.. but when he sucks on my nipples hes not gentle at all. and he doesnt really use his tongue he just sucks really hard.. how can i tell him with out discouraging from doing it at all

Honesty is the best policy. If he’s not doing something that you need, trust me, the guy is gonna want to know! I know it’s awkward because you don’t want to embarrass the other person so my advice would be to talk him through it when he’s doing it. A little bit of instruction goes a long way, especially when you’re breathless, naked, and holding him by the back of his head. 😉

When he starts using his mouth on your nipples, just gently tell him how you want it done. Tell him you how you want to feel his tongue on you, tell him to go slower, tell him how good it feels when he does it. Don’t tell him he was doing it wrong before (he’ll get that without it being said), just tell him how you want it done now. If he’s the right kind of guy, he’s going to want to do everything he can to please you, and he’d probably hate that he’s been getting that part wrong. If he gets shy about it, encourage him even more. Verbal and non verbal praise and encouragement will get you everywhere!

That’s just my humble opinion. Anyone else have thoughts on this?