Author: sumptuousdaydreams

Okay so im kinda socially awkward with girls, I have simple conversations with them but it never really goes beyond that. So I dont have many friends that are girls, and I dont know why but I just kinda get nervous when I talk to them. So do you have any tips on how to stop being like this, and how to have more friends that are girls and even beyond that?

It’s normal to be nervous when you’re not used to it. But all you have to remember is that girls are just people too. lol. 😉 Don’t second guess yourself so much. Relax and talk to girls like you would with a guy (just don’t be a pig, remember respect). That’s all. I would hope that comes easily to you…

As for tips, the best one I can give you is CONFIDENCE. Now, that doesn’t mean being a cocky, arrogant, jackass. It just means being secure about yourself and who you are. Feel good about yourself and know who you are. That’s a quality that attracts everyone. Whether it’s just friends or someone you’re into.

If you want to be friends with a girl, talk about things you might have in common, TV shows, books, sports (if she’s a jock), movies, a party coming up, classes, etc. Keep it light, make her laugh. Everyone loves being around someone else who can make them smile.

BE YOURSELF. Girls know when you’re trying too hard, we see it coming a mile away, so just be yourself, be genuine, and you’re going to find some girls that really like you, whether it’s platonic or not. Girls are naturally drawn to guys who are secure about themselves and honest.

When you’re looking for a girl for a friend, she’s just going to be another one of the guys. That’s how you have to visualize it.

If you’re looking to pursue a platonic relationship, try saying something casual like “we should text!” during your conversation and you can get her number that way. Then you can text her and talk about whatever it is you found you had in common. It’s not a big deal, it’s just a way to keep in touch. You can text about “drama” that’s happening with other friends that you both know, some new event coming up. Hell, if you guys chat enough, you could start asking HER for advice about girls! It doesn’t have to be a huge deal because it’s not, okay? Girls aren’t as scary as they seem. (Okay, some are, but not all! I promise!)

Be yourself, be genuine, and be confident.

Those are the best tips I can give you. I promise, you’ll find the rest of the way on your own, and it won’t be half as hard as you think it is right now.

I figured this would be a good blog to ask this on. I know for a fact I have a less-than-average penis when compared to all these huge ones I see in porn and on this blog. When its not hard its ~3″ and when it is hard its ~5″. 1. Do girls honestly care what it is when its flaccid? And 2. Should I really be as embarrassed as I am about it?

Okay, first, if you are seriously comparing yourself to what you see in porn, STOP. That’s absurd! Those men are able to be in the business because they’re abnormally large. Porn is a complete distortion of reality for both men and women. Let’s just be clear there.

If you’re 5” erect then you are perfectly normal. The average male penis erect size is 5”-6”. And, no, women do not care when it’s flaccid (unless it shouldn’t be flaccid at that particular time, then yeah, you have a problem on your hands). Honestly, women don’t want to see your penis unless it’s time for it to do some work anyway.

Do not be embarrassed. Confidence is one of the biggest turn on’s. Own your cock and use it as one of the many tools you have to make some women very, very satisfied customers.