Author: sumptuousdaydreams

I’m the same anon from earlier, the bisexual girl. Okay ;) fine sex. I just didn’t really no what to call it. Thanks for the advice. I just didn’t know really how to approach it, because I’m a bit socially awkward.

No problem! Happy to help. 🙂

When it comes to things like that, honesty and straightforwardness is the best approach. There’s no leaving things to misinterpretation. It’s a frank understanding between two people. You want to have sex but not a relationship and you’re friends, if you want to continue to have her around for that sort of thing, just be honest about it. People respond really well to that sort of blunt “this is what I’d like” declarations when it comes to a friends with benefits sort of thing. You can keep it light and make it clear that it’s just something enjoyable to do with your friend. And, hey, we all need the stress relief so if you’re not in a relationship and you have some talented friends…might as well take advantage! 😉

I’m a bisexual girl and i want to have lesbian sex with my friend and last time she stayed the night at my house we ate each other out. She was really good at it and I want to do it again. How do I ask her to do it again?

Lesbian sex? lol. It’s just called “sex”, okay? With a boy or a girl, it’s still just “sex”. 😉

Well, if you were good at it too, then there’s no reason why she wouldn’t be up for it again! Are you guys casual friends or is there more history?

If you’re close, you should be able to feel comfortable to bring it up again. You know, a really simple, straightforward confession of, “I’m horny, you’re amazing, please get me off again?”

If you’re casual friends, it’s easy to see as a one-off, but try dropping some hints, touches, etc. and see how receptive she is? If she’s into it then I’d just go for it again like you did the last time.

Do you have a favorite bdsm erotic novel? I like reading and this would really help, thanks in advance! ~thanks anyway if you dont know~

I haven’t really been interested in that kind of “literature” 😉 but I have heard good things about Anne Rice’s series The Sleeping Beauty. She wrote it under the pseudonym  ‘A. N. Roquelaure’.

I haven’t read them, so I can’t personally vouch for them, but she wrote the Beauty series over two decades ago and people still consider them some of the best bdsm romance novels out there.

Plus, I like Anne Rice as an author. I enjoyed The Vampire Chronicles: Interview with the Vampire, The Vampire Lestat, Queen of the Damned, etc.

So she would be my guess for a good bdsm read! If you do read it, be sure to let me know how it is! I might have to give it a shot. 🙂

Guys, am I going to have to start tagging my gifs? Because I’m getting really tired of this. Why is reposting even a thing? I don’t understand it. Reblogging not only allows the person who made it to get credit for their stuff but it also makes it 10x easier for other people to have it on their blog! One click of a button. Yet it’s gotten so bad that I’m actually having my STOLEN gifs showing up on my dash on a daily basis.

It really sucks. Especially when the stolen gifs have more notes than the original! *eyeroll* This is ridiculous. Where’s the respect?