Author: sumptuousdaydreams

have you been thinkin’ about put a watermark to your gifs? for the repost thing? :3

I’m trying everything possible to avoid it, but the problem just keeps getting worse. I see blogs that are basically just ALL my stolen gifs reposted! I still don’t want to tag them though. It looks like crap. 😦

If only people could actually respect the fucking reblog button! It exists for a reason! And it’s so simple! But, no, people go out of their way to steal because they want their blogs to be known as the “sole source” for “new” gifs (even if it’s a lie). If you want to have that kind of blog, then do what I do, and make your own goddamn gifs.

Is a 5 inch penis anything to be worried about size wise? I’ve always been very self conscious about it…

5 inches erect is perfectly average! The worst thing you can do is be self conscious about your dick. I’ve answered this question before though so see here.

Remember that it’s NOT all about the penis. Fingers, mouth, and tongue need to be equally important. If you master all four combined, then I promise you, you will NEVER have anything to worry about in that department. Men think it’s all about the size of their penis and that’s what’s going to please women the most. *RUDEBUZZERSOUND* Newsflash! It’s not all about the cock. And the guys who think it is? They’re fucking awful in bed.

“It’s a myth that using the penis is the main way to pleasure a woman” (Ian Kerner – look him up if you want!). It’s actually much harder for a woman to achieve a vaginal orgasm than a clitoral orgasm and since the clit is woefully neglected when you’re pumping away…it doesn’t matter if you’re 8 inches or 5 inches, it’s still not touching the clit, and therefore ignoring the central point of pleasure in the female body.

Stop worrying about how big your cock is and start worrying about what you’re going to do with the other means you have at your disposal to satisfy your partner. The penis is only one aspect of a much larger picture!

When I cum, there’s this white creamy stuff. Does that mean I ‘squirted’?

No.

When you “squirt” it’s a clear fluid. You would be more concerned with whether or not you had accidentally peed.

So there’s a few possible reasons for the “white creamy stuff”:

1) Our female ‘juices’ change texture over the course of a month due to our menstrual cycle. Right after your period ends, it may be a lot like lotion, creamy, smooth. Closer to ovulation, it becomes clearer (not always though) and slippery. As soon as you ovulate, the fluid becomes thick and sticky. This all happens because the vagina is a self cleaning, nifty little sucker. Awesome! 😉

2) It could just be a frothy foam worked up through vigorous intercourse, coating the penis, and making your usual lubrication look different.

3) If the discharge has a not-so-great odor and/or looks kind of lumpy like cottage cheese then you probably have a yeast infection or an STI and you should see your doctor to have it treated ASAP.

4) It’s a possible oversight, but are you certain the “white creamy stuff” isn’t semen? Just throwing that thought out there…

How does an orgasm feel? Because I feel my body tensing up and clenching my fingers but I never end up satisfied.

Many a fanfic writer has wasted away their days trying to accurately describe the wondrous experience known as an orgasm…

All have failed.

There’s no way to describe it other than that if you’re wondering whether or not you’ve had an orgasm, then you have not had an orgasm.

My advice is to relax and breathe deeply, even holding your breath for a few seconds before exhaling. It’s like you’re trying to breathe every ounce of pleasure happening to your body further inside yourself. You feel it more acutely and then you have to relax and ALLOW your body to feel it (in the exhale). Men get all tight and clenched right before they orgasm, but women need to be as calm and open to pleasure as they can possibly be in order to allow their body to crest and fall over the tipping point.

Try using a vibrator against your clit. It really helps!

So I got a masturbation question. I’m 18 and I’ve only been able to masturbate a few times because every time I do it it hurts really bad. Is that normal? Any advice?

First off, don’t force anything that causes you pain. If you’re a virgin, then it’s going to be a little uncomfortable and tight down there when you use your fingers (let alone anything else). I have a feeling you’re trying to go too fast and jump into things.

If you’re a virgin and you’re trying to use your fingers or other objects to penetrate yourself, then yes, it’s normal for it to hurt in the beginning. It shouldn’t be excruciating, but yes, it’ll be uncomfortable. If you’re not a virgin then you should not be experiencing pain like that. You might be trying too much without being prepared (lubricated).

Go slower. Relax. Set aside plenty of time for yourself without feeling like you have to rush. Rub yourself through your underwear, slowly build up your arousal, play around and find what makes you feel good rather than doing what you think you’re “supposed” to do when you masturbate. You don’t have to put your fingers inside you at all!

You can play with your clit (circular motions!). Hump your hand or anything else you have available (ie. roll up a blanket and put it between your legs or use a firm pillow or even a stuffed animal!). Move your hips and rock against it, grind away to your heart’s content and it will start to feel pretty damn good. Spread your legs further, open yourself for more direct contact. EXPERIMENT! Masturbating does not require penetration. There’s no one exact method women use to masturbate. It’s different for all of us.

When you are significantly aroused and very wet, that’s when you consider using a finger or two. And that’s going to be tight and little uncomfortable the first few times so don’t do more than what feels right! The more you masturbate, the more your body will adjust to it, and then there’ll be no discomfort or even the slightest bit of pain!

Honestly, a lot of women don’t even like using their fingers to fuck themselves, they prefer a clitoral orgasm (orgasm achieved by stimulating your clit and the outer vaginal area only). So try that first and work your way up to penetration. Vaginal orgasms are actually less intense and harder to achieve so penetration is only something you would want to help yourself along if that’s what you like, but it’s not necessary.

To sum up? Don’t do any penetration if it hurts. Try other ways and work your way up to it again if that’s something your body is telling you it wants. The key to masturbation is paying attention to your body’s needs!

Well seeing as this is a VERY sexual blog, I hope it’s not remiss of me to assume you will answer some about that. Miss Daydream, what would you say is your favourite fantasy? What have you tried, out of the norm?

…this is a sexual blog?