Author: sumptuousdaydreams

So.. last night me and my friend went to a party we got really drink and we made out for a while she ate me out and had an orgasm I liked it. and i’m so confused right now am I a lesbian? we haven’t talked since it happend and i’m so confused like I’ve never even had sex before and urgg

Does it matter?

You had sex with a girl and you liked it. Okay. Do you want to date her? Do you want to have sex with her again? You can do all of that and then if it doesn’t work out then maybe later down the line you’ll find a boy you’re attracted to and date/have sex with him. Maybe you’ll like that more, maybe you’ll like being with a girl more, maybe you’ll like both for the different pleasures it gave you!

Don’t rush into a gay panic. Enjoying sex with a girl simply means that you enjoyed having sex with that one particular girl. It does NOT mean that you now have to swear off boys forever, cut your hair like Justin Bieber, and eternally doom your closet to plaid button downs. (JOKING.) I mean, really, calm down. You’re not a lesbian just because you enjoyed having someone go down on you. It’s a very pleasurable sex act…

Focus on whether or not you actually want to be with the girl you had sex with. Not because she’s a girl, but because you like her, you’re attracted to her, and you want to do all those things you do with a bf/gf – cuddle, kiss, fuck, hold her hand, cry on her shoulder, bring her soup when she’s sick, dance with her at a club, talk to her about everything and anything, laugh until you cry, sit on her lap even when there’s plenty of room elsewhere, etc.

If that’s not what you want, then you’ll meet someone else you’re attracted to. Could be a guy. Could be a girl. Just go with it. We like people for being who they are, not for being a certain gender.

hi okay so i got fingered the other day (for the first time and i’m a virgin) and my pussy is really sore… is that normal? also i usually randomly get wet during the day but after i got fingered it’s more wet and i first i thought it was pee because it’s a little yellow but it smells like cum… is something wrong with me? thanku!!

Yes, it’s normal to be sore.

No, it should not be that color. Anything that’s not white or clear (and not related to your period) is an indication of an infection or an STD. See a doctor if that continues.