Author: sumptuousdaydreams

do guys like neck kissing and lip biting too? also, do you have any advice for neck kissing?

Most guys absolutely love being kissed on the the neck! Drives them crazy! Occasionally they’re too ticklish, but don’t worry, it’s not going to make it or break it if you try kissing his neck and it turns out he’s too ticklish for it. You just know for future reference that he’s too ticklish there.

As for lip biting, most guys are into that too (just not too hard!). Although, I find the ears are a bigger thing with guys for biting. They often like being licked around the ear, nibbling on the earlobe, breathing on their ears, etc. Big turn on for them!

It’s different for every guy, so you have to experiment to see what works for each of them, but definitely test them out and see what the guy responds to!

Neck kissing…first, think about what YOU like being done to you and turn that around for him. After experimenting, you’ll find what he likes the most. It’s the same thing where everyone is different, so you never know what will work without experimenting.

The basics? Start by letting him feel your breath on his neck. Then kiss him, nibble on him, use your tongue (don’t slobber!), suck a little (hickeys are juvenile so don’t even). Experiment. Try traveling from his jaw to his neck to his ear. Start slow and light and work your way from there becoming increasingly passionate.

FUN THING TO TRY?

Eat an ice cube and then immediately after, lick a part of his neck with your cold tongue then warm it up by kissing the same spot with your warm lips – no tongue. The different temperatures stimulate the nerves and feels awesome! It’s the same idea as using as ice cube on a body part and then warming it up with your mouth. You could also hold an ice cube between your teeth, run it over his body, and then follow the same trail again, kissing it with your warm mouth and tongue. Hot/cold is great for stimulating arousal!

Stupid question, i really want to make my boyfriend come I’ve given him hj and bj but i always stop early because i dont know what its going to be like. i love the fact that i get to please him and i’m ready to be doing all that. i hate the fact that i tease him and never let him release! but yeah what should i do? should i have a chat to him about it?

Definitely talk to him! If you’re feeling nervous about it, you need to explain exactly that to him – let him know what it is your feeling/thinking. Guys need us to spell it out for them, they respond well to a direct “this is what’s going on” approach. They do not understand mixed messages and get confused very easily so the best form of communication is the one that is as straightforward and honest as possible.

What is it exactly that you’re worried about? Some white stuff is gonna come out and you just wipe it off with whatever you have handy. That’s it really. Just make sure you’re not in the way so it doesn’t get on your clothes and make a mess. Also don’t let it get in your eyes! Burns like a mofo. 😉

If you’re really worried about taking it all the way to the finish line,  try this: do what you usually do and then when he gets close, instead of stopping altogether, have him take over. Tell him to finish himself off. So he’ll jack off in front of you and you can watch and see for yourself without worrying about the responsibility. He’ll think it’s hot if you ask – anything so that he gets to come! Once you see it the first time, it’ll never be a big deal again, haha.

Do you want me to post some “cum shot” gifs for you so you have an idea of what it’s going to look like?

I’m 17 years old girl. I lost my virginity couple of weeks a go to a guy and after that we’ve fucked one time. I really like this guy but we’re not together. Now everytime we talk about sex, he tells me that he would like me to be on top. My problem is that I want to try it but I’m afraid that I don’t know how to do it. I have a lot of pressure about that. Like, having sex in general is a new thing to me. How to be on top? what should I do to make him get the pleasure?

Okay, first off, don’t let this guy pressure you into doing anything you don’t feel comfortable with or ready to do. If you’re feeling self conscious about being on top, simply tell him that you’re not ready to do that yet. If he has a problem with it then he can go fuck himself.

I know you said you want to do it, but your hesitancy makes me question if it’s what you want for yourself or if it’s what you want to please him… You see?

Do only what YOU feel comfortable and prepared to do. Don’t let him dictate what positions you’re going to be in! You just had sex for the first time! You’re not even dating! Just tell him you’ll get on top when you want to, but not right now. Not until you feel more confident about sex in general.

When you’re totally ready to climb up there (and it has to be coming from YOU and YOUR DESIRE to get into that position) read this post from an anon question I answered a while back.

A girl on top makes it all about the girl. It’s about you and what you like and what makes you feel good. He’s your playtoy and you’re doing whatever the fuck you want to him. This is why I’m advising you to wait until you feel more comfortable with sex because being on top means exploring what feels good for you. You’re setting the rhythm, the pace, gyrating, whatever it is you like. Until you’re ready for that kind of control…take it slower and if this guy isn’t okay with that, then you need to find another guy. End of story.

Heyo, would you mind telling me who the woman on the top is in this gif sumptuousdaydreams . tumblr. com/post/43045466125 ? She is so incredibly beautiful. Also, is the $20 for uploaded videos something you’re definitely considering, or do you need to wait and see how many people are interested?

I believe that’s Brooklyn. (Not to be confused with Brooklyn Lee Adams!)

And, yes, it’s something I’m definitely considering, but I’m still waiting to see if there’s more interest.

TO EVERYONE WHO ASKS EVERY SINGLE DAY ABOUT VIDEO SOURCE LINKS…

Anonymous asked sumptuousdaydreams:

Yeah I would pay for the sources! I just want a link to the videos, not so much to download, just to watch. You’re the best, seriously. ^_^

Well, the thing is that I only have the vids downloaded. I usually have to rip them. So I can, if more people are interested, upload them to a private account so you can view them that way. I have over 70 HQ vids on my hard drive right now (with more to be added in the future). But I have so much to do and this blog already takes up so much of my time. If people wanted to put a little money towards it, I could make a case with myself that it’s worth the effort. You know?

To everyone:

I don’t have source links for you! I only have the videos. And I’m not uploading 70+ HD videos for you guys when I have a job and a life. It just has to be somewhat worthwhile for me. I think that’s fair.

ORIGINAL POST ABOUT THE SUBJECT

First Time?

I’m about to lose my virginity this weekend and I’m nervous. Any advice?

  • Be sure this is what you want and not about anyone else, first and foremost.
  • Don’t expect miracles. It’s not going to be that great (the first time), but if you’re with someone you care about, it will be wonderful in a different way – beyond physical pleasure.
  • Don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with. You have the right to say no and to stop at any time you want. Always remember that!
  • Relax and let yourself be in the moment. Don’t make yourself a wreck with worrying about how to do this and that and all the ‘technical’ things. Do what feels good, act on instinct, and take it slowly.
  • If you can manage to have an orgasm BEFORE penetration, it’ll make the whole experience so much better. Tell your partner that and try to make it happen.

Be safe and enjoy yourself!

Whats the best way to make a girl orgasm? Ive been trying but i dont think its working :( HELP

First, calm down.

Second, scroll through the Sex Advice tag. Lot’s of stuff there about pleasing a woman.

Key things to keep in mind?

  – Focus on foreplay. ESSENTIAL! Lots and lots of foreplay. The wetter she is, the better the ride…

– Oral is the easiest way to make a girl orgasm. Get down there and put your mouth to work. You need to think about rhythm and circles. CIRCLES CIRCLES CIRCLES ANOTHER SHAPE CIRCLES. Got it?

– Put her needs before yours. Ask her questions. Watch her body language. Have her physically direct you to the right spots if need be.

Foreplay.

Rhythm.

Circles.

Go check the tag!