It’s on the second page of the sex advice tag.
Here.
Author: sumptuousdaydreams
I love your blog and the advice that you give.I have question to ask you but the ask box won’t let me.
If it’s because it’s too long, you can submit the question. There’s a link for that on the right sidebar. 🙂
any tips for phone sex? like what to say to your partner etc..
It depends on your vernacular. If you tend to be more crude, then the way you describe things is going to very very vulgar and explicit. Which is okay! That’s great! It’s your thing and many, many people love dirty talk. Talk about all the filthy things you want to do to them or have done to you. Describe it. Using your imagination and your fantasies is what phone sex is all about. You need to have a good imagination and let go of your inhibitions!
If you’re not that forward and you feel a little shy about it, then describing how you FEEL rather than the actual act is the way to go. “You make me feel so good. I love it when you touch me. I love it when you do *this*. My body is aching. I’m so wet.” And so on!
HOW TO HAVE PHONE SEX – the only thing I really disagree with in this article is one of the things they listed as the “don’ts” of phone sex. They say don’t laugh, I disagree. Laughing is really sexy and lightens up the mood and makes you feel comfortable with each other. Otherwise, it’s all pretty on point.
i really want to have sex with my boy friend but he wants to wait til marriage and i dont want to get in the way of his values or anything. i cant afford and honestly dont want to buy sex toys. and everytime i masturbate it doesnt feel good, it really doesnt feel like anything. do you have any tips?
Another question I’ve been often asked! Masturbating is extremely personal and there’s no one method to it. It takes time and experimenting to perfect it. In the future, check out the sex advice tag. Here are some posts I’ve already made about it…
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hey! i think your blog is good as it is now :) i like the mixture of advice and gifs, it’s perfect. good job and thank you!
Thanks!
So…things are pretty much split down the middle right now. Some say separate, some say as is. Gonna need some more input!
My girlfriend and I have a pretty fucking awesome sex life, but I’ve never made her squirt, which is something I’d really like to do. Is there any way I can make her squirt, or is it more of an “if it happens it happens” sort of thing?
I’ve answered several questions about squirting already. Make sure you check the sex advice tag before messaging me because at this point, the odds are that the answer you need is already there! 🙂
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A poll! I need your opinion.
Would you like for me to:
A) Keep this blog as is with both gifs and advice.
or
B) Make a separate blog for sex/relationship advice and answer all questions on the other blog instead of this one.
Chime in with your thoughts!
a couple of nights ago i tried out making out while i was on top of my guy. i really liked it and i’m pretty sure he did too, and i wanted to know if you had any tips for girl on top of boy making out/foreplay?
Not really, no.
Hey, not to tell ya how to run your blog, just a suggestion, but perhaps have a separate one for advice and one for the gifs? (Both of which is great)
I’ve been considering it! I had no idea people would be asking me so many questions.
hey! i have a boyfriend and we slept 2 times together and he fingered me several times, but every time i want to cum i have the feeling that i have to pee and i can not relax and this is so embarassing and awkward :(
Okay, well unless you have a weak bladder and have experienced accidentally wetting yourself at your age, then it’s highly unlikely that you’re actually going to pee.
It’s actually a very common sensation when approaching orgasm and often it’s a symptom of the G-Spot orgasm which can also lead to “squirting”. If that happens, a clear liquid (NOT PEE!) would come out.
The only thing you can do is accept the feeling and let it happen! Just give yourself over! You’re not going to pee on him. To give yourself more reassurance, try urinating before doing anything with him, that way you KNOW you have an empty bladder when the feeling comes around again.
Let yourself cum! It’s going to be okay.
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