Author: sumptuousdaydreams

You had a follower ask about feeling like she needs to pee when her girlfriend pleasures her – maybe she’s a gusher? Female ejaculation can be confusing & scary because at first it can feel for peeing, but it’s not. If she holds back & doesn’t allow herself to go for it she’ll miss out on a lot of fun for both her and her partner I think (I am a gusher and it is great).

I assumed she’d been following this blog because I’ve talked IN-LENGTH about female ejaculation. So at this point, if you’re telling me you’re peeing, then I’m going to believe you because I have at least 5 previous posts in the sex advice tag that go into detail about female ejaculation, where it comes from, what it feels like, what it looks like, and even ways to induce one.

Pee, looks and smells like pee. Female ejaculation (otherwise known as ‘squirting’) is clear and does not smell like urine.

Is everyone on the same page now?

Please check the sex advice tag because I’ve talked about all of this many times before! I’m going to stop even replying to questions that I’ve already answered thrice over… So please do me the courtesy of checking before messaging me because I do want to help, but not if you can’t even be bothered to look at my previous answers.

where do you recommend buying sex toys?

Well, if there are thousands of sex shops everywhere so I’m sure you can find one locally that wouldn’t be more than 20 mins away from you.

But if we’re talking online…

Adam & Eve is popular and probably one of the oldest online stores. They sell both high end and low end so do your research before you buy something because you don’t want to get stuck with something crappy. The prices are decent and you get free stuff!

My Pleasure has been highly publicized in major magazines. They’re just about the toys and don’t really venture into any other items you could use for sex (ie. a swing). They offer good products.

Good Vibrations is well known and its been around for a while. They’re a little pricier, but they offer a lot of the original versions of products instead of knock offs so there’s something to be said for that.

Liberator has a lot of stuff, haha. They also offer more unique items that you can’t get on other sites. So that’s their biggest niche.

What if my bf has a think dick, how do I have sex with it? Like I never had a bf that think, he looks like he`s 2.5 inch wide, and I`m scared and don`t want to walk funny or be unable to be active because of the pain

You’ll never know unless you try. So take it slowly. If it hurts, don’t do it. You should be all right though. We’re able to push a baby the size of a football out of our vaginas so I’m pretty sure you will be able to adapt to his girth.

The same rules apply across the board: foreplay is essential and if something doesn’t feel good, don’t do it.

You’ll be fine!

I know it’s embarrassing but I don’t know who to ask. I’m a girl and when my girlfriend finger me, I feel like I want to pee. and it’s always been like that. Is it normal? How can I get rid of that feeling? Because she’s my first so I don’t know any better. Thank you.

Read this post.

To make yourself feel safer and more confident, try going to the bathroom before you have sex so you empty your bladder.

Hey I’m a girl and I’m trying to masturbate but I can’t seem to find the right place for my finger and I’m scared it’ll hurt. Please help!

It won’t hurt. Just rub yourself on the outside until you start to feel it. That’s a good way to start off masturbating and then you can work up to more when you feel confident about it.

Get a handheld mirror and stand over it with your legs spread so you can clearly see where everything is down there.

You don’t have to respond to this but I thought I should let you know that I have a crush on you. I was reading your advice to other people and was like “I have no idea who this is but I have a crush on them” That is all.

Hello, I’m 17 years old and I have rather large labia minora. It bothers me a lot and I’m so so so so scared that when I become sexually active guys will make fun of me for it. I’m so self conscious about it that it literally keeps me up at night just thinking about it. What should I do?

Read this post.

Hi I’m a 14 year old gay guy with a strong, read STRONG, desire to suck a dick. Should I act on my urges or wait till I’m older?

I always say waiting is better. You’re only 14! You have so many years ahead of you to start acting on your sexual urges. I say take this time now to hold off, learn more about your body, learn more about relationships, and then in a year or two years, start exploring sex with someone you care about.

Your hormones are raging out of control. Of course, you’re feeling this way. It’s perfectly normal. 14 year old boys are notoriously horny. But you can’t let yourself be a slave to your hormones. You are capable of controlling your urges. Really, what it comes down to is do you just wanna suck off random guys like it doesn’t matter or do you want it to matter? It’s, as always, up to you.

Make the decision with your head and not your dick. 😉