Author: sumptuousdaydreams

andirishwhiskey said: kinda feels like you care more about getting credit for the work than the you do about the work itself

Uh…no. Actually that couldn’t be further from the truth. But I guess you’re saying I make crappy gifs? That I’m more worried about getting credit than making better gifs?

Okay, well, it’s not about CREDIT. I don’t even like tagging my gifs because I loathe the way it looks. I’d rather have clean, nice gifs than have to ruin it with a stupid watermark for “credit”. If I were really that concerned with getting credit, I would have a giant tag on every single gif I make just so EVERYONE KNOWS that came from me. No. That’s ridiculous and I don’t care about getting more followers. I just post what I like and if other people like it too, that’s great. However, when you STEAL my shit, that pisses me off.

It bothers me that other people steal gifs because they just want to be a popular blog and think that they only way to do that is to repost everything so it all comes back to them and they get more followers using other people’s stuff. It’s just plain wrong. The whole POINT of tumblr and what separates tumblr from the rest is the “reblog” function. It’s absurd that this is a problem.

I put a lot of time and effort into finding videos, downloading them, making gifs, etc. All I ask for in return is if you like the gif, reblog it instead of reposting it… Is that really asking for so much? Do you think I’m a power hungry, fame whoring narcissist for wanting that? I mean, seriously…

ATTENTION!

Hey all,

I need a quick favor from you guys. This user, proibidoprazer, has a blog that posts NOTHING BUT STOLEN GIFS. There’s not a single original post on that blog. She ignores any messages about stealing and continues to repost even when tumblr removes the stolen gifs. She just puts them back up again.

If you see this blog, proibidoprazer, as the source of a gif or pic, DO NOT reblog that gif. You’re only supporting someone who clearly does not respect the work people put into their blogs.

To stop this, I need EVERYONE to go here http://www.tumblr.com/ignore and block this blog: proibidoprazer. Then you can click a button that will say “report for spam". Technically, it’s not spam, it’s stealing, but if enough people report this blog, it’ll raise some flags with the tumblr staff and maybe it’ll even be enough to get it taken down. We can only hope…

I tried the nice way, it didn’t work, and now I’m just sick of it. Let’s put this gif thief out of business, okay?

Thank you!

i’m a virgin girl and me and my boyfriend are probably gonna start having sex quite soon and i wanna be on top but i really don’t understand the movement i’m meant to do – like is it thrusting in an out or an up/down motion?

Uh, that’s pretty much the same thing. I believe you mean the difference between “bump n’ grind” and “bounce up and down”.

Read this post in the sex advice tag. I go into detail about the girl being on top. 🙂

Heys, so basically me and my boyfriend have decided that we want to have sex. I’m virgin and hes not, and he said that he completely understands if when it happens i’m a bit lost and told me it take practice to get ‘good’. He’s completely right, i don’t have a clue what to do, but purely because i’m stubborn and love to prove him wrong, i was wondering if you could give me some tips on giving head and sex stuff, so that i’m not completely ‘lost’ and might surprise him :’) Thanks:)

Read through the sex advice tag. Tons of tips in there that will help you!

So I masturbate and it feels really good, but right when I’m about to orgasm I can’t. It happens every time. What if when I become sexually active and I can’t orgasm? I want to buy a vibrator, but I’m not old enough. Any tips?

Try some deep breathing. Taking yoga classes inadvertently does wonders for your sex life just from learning how to breathe correctly.

You may not even realize you’re doing it, but many women react instinctively to encroaching orgasm by holding their breath. *RUDEBUZZERSOUND* That’s not going to help you! Try to be more aware of how you’re breathing. The goal is to feel the sexual arousal your body is experiencing and then EXPAND it by taking a deeper breath which draws out the pleasure even more.

Breathe deeply into your pelvic area. I know that sounds weird, but when you slowly draw in the breath, visualize where you want it to go. Imagine that you’re sending the breath into the vaginal canal before slowly exhaling through the nose. This creates oxygen, decreases tension, and increases blood flow in the pelvic area. It has a HUGE impact on your sexual pleasure. Trust me.

so me and my boyfriend have been doing “hand” stuff, and whenever he really gets going, it starts to hurt a LOT.& not a hot type of hurt. like OUCH STOP hurt. and i dont know why. so, every time we “hook up” he gets off and I don’t because I always make him stop and I’m left feeling like I put in a bunch of effort for nothing returned. I’m still a virgin, so maybe its the fact that my cherry hasn’t been popped? i dont even know if it has been or not… idk what to do. i feel so unsatisfied.

Do you masturbate? Does it hurt when you use your fingers on yourself?

If the answer to the latter is “no”, then he’s doing it wrong. You need to work with him and take control, tell him what to do, what feels good, because he is obviously not experienced and doesn’t understand what he’s doing.

A lot of younger, inexperienced guys think they can just ram their fingers away, but that’s the opposite of what you want. Start off with him just rubbing through your underwear. Get yourself really wet and worked up just from that. Hump his hand. Don’t even go for penetration. Work on making that step feel really good. Then you can work up to having him massage you with skin on skin contact. If you’re finally starting to get what you need from that, have him use lube and ONE finger to slowly, gently go inside you, while focusing more on the clit.

You need to be the one to teach him what you like. It’s not fair that the amount of sexual satisfaction is unbalanced, you have every right to be just as satisfied as him, but for girls, we have to open up and take more control over the situation because you cannot leave it up to your boyfriend to know how to do it.

If he doesn’t try harder and listen to you when you tell him what you like, then that’s a serious problem and you may want to rethink your relationship with him. Unfortunately, I’ve experienced some real assholes who purposely do a bad job of fingering because they don’t want to put the work in. If they “suck” at it or they hurt you, then you’re not going to keep asking them to do it, right? It’s fucked up, but that is the reality for some people.

Hopefully that’s not the case with your boyfriend. So just try to work with him. It should NOT be hurting like that. So either he’s doing it wrong or there’s a rare possibility you have a medical issue. (I really think he’s just doing it wrong.)