I’m a 16 year old girl. I’m secretly in love with a boy. My best guy friend actually. He found out about it two months ago and hasn’t spoken a word with me since. We were actually about to dry hump the day he found out…did he panic bc of the sex ?

Sounds like he freaked because he didn’t realize it was something more serious than just dry humping a friend… You need to talk to him. Be honest about your feelings. If he doesn’t feel the same, it will hurt and it will suck, but at least you’ll know. If you still want to be friends, regardless of him not returning your feelings, make sure he knows that too. Don’t let a friendship be ruined because of this.

TALK TO HIM. If he tries to avoid you, don’t let him. He can’t run away for forever. Two months is more than enough time to let him have space. You have a right to talk to him, you deserve that as his friend.

hey, i’m female and 17. I have a boyfriend and i think when we’re starting to go direction sex we would maybe start with a blow job. the thing is (i wouldn’t call it a problem) i have no experience. He’s my first boyfriend and i will tell him that. but the actual problem is that when i think about the whole thing my mouth gets dry and i’m getting nervous. not nervous in a fully negative way but i thing that a dry mouth and a blow job couldn’t be such a good combination.. any advice? thanks x

I think you’ll be fine. The nerves will be there, but you’ll figure it out. It’s not as scary as it seems. Once you start going, it’ll get a lot easier.

Dry mouth will not be a problem. If you feel it coming on though, drink some water before, let it stay in your mouth for a few moments before swallowing. Your body will naturally produce the saliva it needs once you start relaxing and feeling better about what you’re doing.

When the nerves go away, so does the dry mouth, and the nerves will go away when you realize there’s nothing to be nervous about. 🙂

hi, I just want you to help me with something that is happening to me, i touhgt i was straight (i’m a girl), but like 3 months ago a feel sexually attracted by my friend ugh i want her so bad and I always imagine having sex with her, but she’s straight i think 100% and i don’t know what to do :( please give me some advice or something?. thank you (sorry for the mistakes, I speak spanish).

Try dropping some hints with her. See if she would be into it? No one is 100% straight (my personal opinion), but she might not be into it. That’s fair. But try something before it drives you crazy.

If not her, then you’ll find someone else you like eventually and you can test out the lady loving waters with her. It’s okay to be attracted to a girl. It’s okay to be attracted to a guy. It’s okay to be attracted to PEOPLE. 🙂

I just wanna have sex. Omg. I’m so fucking horny. But, I’m only 17 and don’t know what to do…

If you feel ready and you have someone you want to be with, then it’s your choice. Go ahead. It’s about you being mentally and emotionally prepared to take that step.

17 is young, yes, but a very common age to have sex for the first time. So don’t worry about what you’re “supposed" to do and do what feels right.

Do what you want, but always ask yourself if this is something you’d still feel good about afterwards. That’s the key. Would you regret rushing into it? If yes, then start up a wonderfully intimate relationship with a vibrator (or three) until you’re ready for something more. 😉

Don’t let your hormones cloud your judgment. Easier said than done, I know, but the best thing you can do is find someone that you want to be with, someone that you want a relationship with, not just an available body to have sex with.

If you go looking for pure sex, my guess is that you will probably regret it. (It’s not all it’s cracked up to be when it’s not with the right person. Know that.)

Hi! Just passing by to say hello & give you my total support for what you’re doing :) your work is great, you advice people in a serious & understanding way & I’m gonna beat the crap of the shitty guys stealing or insulting you :@ you had me with the beautiful gifs, most of them show chemistry between the actors & that’s what I’m searching for in porn :) even if I’m not really into guys, I find the het/gay stuff you post lovely! Keep on dear, you’re delighting me with this blog :D Nice day bye!

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Aw, thank you! I’m glad you’re enjoying it. I try!

oh, please.I wanted to watch one of the videos gif … this is the” source” of which you will not say … and if so why?

There is no one “source”. There’s dozens of them. I can’t answer every single question about where the videos are from/where the link is. It’s way too much. I get a dozen questions a day JUST about this, not including all the other questions I get.

I download the videos from many, many different sites after a great deal of searching and I have over a hundred of them currently. I don’t remember where they all came from. I don’t have links to the videos. Sorry.

Hi, i really like your gifs. They are classy, romantic and sensual at the same time. Do you know women friendly porn websites?

There’s not a lot out there geared towards women (even less for straight women), but Joymii, X-Art, Babes, and Sex Art, are more upscale. They can be boring though, unfortunately.

It seems you have to sacrifice passion and chemistry for a higher production value?