Author: sumptuousdaydreams

I have kind of a strange question. Is having dark hair around the nipple really strange for a girl? It’s so so so embarrassing and I always try to trim it short but it’s a real knock on my self-esteem :(

About 30% of women have nipple hair simply due to genetics. So it’s not strange at all.

Trimming or tweezing are your best options. Never shave – the area is way too sensitive, you’ll easily cut yourself. It often causes more hair growth and makes the area darker. It’s not abnormal, I promise, but it is a pain to maintain. Don’t be ashamed of it. Everyone has something going on. Nipple hair, inverted nipples, birthmarks, dark spots, hairy asses, whatever! Everyone has something so do not think you’re alone in this and that you have something strange.

That dork Tyler Posey on Teen Wolf talks about how he has to trim his nipple hair all the time. Guys have it too! Just genetics.

Every time when I’m done working out I get REALLY horny, is that normal ? Or is it just me ?

It’s totally normal! Many people have the same reaction.

I’m not sure if this is the reason, but exercise releases a chemical called endorphins. Endorphins affect the receptors in your brain that reduce your perception of pain and they’re usually associated with a “happy” feeling/mood.

So if you’re feeling happy, less stressed, on a “high” from your workout, there’s no reason to think that wouldn’t influence your sex drive.

Also, working out has a positive influence on your self esteem. You feel more energized and better overall about your body image. So it’s really quite natural to feel “in the mood” after exercise. Your state of mind plays a huge part in it!

Do you think its strange that I have a boyfriend but he can never make me cum, but when I rub myself while watching videos with two girls I can finish myself?

Nope. Not strange at all.

I think it’s likely that you’re too shy with your boyfriend and not communicating your needs. YOU know how to get yourself off, you know what your body likes, you know what you like, you what works. So now you just have to find a way to incorporate that into your sex life with your boyfriend.

If you find yourself picturing a girl or wishing that your boyfriend was a girl, then that’s a different situation and the answer for that goes without saying…

But just because you think it’s hot watching two women together does not make you a lesbian. Maybe you like girls more than you thought, maybe seeing something different turns you on more, maybe you actually like girls more than guys and you’re not that into your boyfriend after all. I don’t know, you’re the only one who knows that.

My advice: relax, speak up, walk him through it, make sure he knows exactly what you want and need. You can’t be timid or shy when it comes to your sexual satisfaction, and you can’t expect him to be a mind reader. If there’s something you want and he’s not doing it, tell him! He would want to know.

If things don’t start improving, even with the extra work you put into it, then maybe it’s not meant to work out at all. Sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there.

Well I’m 15, I’m a girl, I’m virgin, and I FUCKING FREAKING LOVE WATCHING PORN! And I like the rough sex, and masturbate a lot too, but the deal is that I didn’t wanna lose my virginity before marriage, but when me and my boyfriend are alone the thing go so hot and I want to fuck with him right here right there! what can I do?

You’re only 15 so I would slow yourself down. Enjoy the porn. Enjoy masturbating. Enjoy being with your boyfriend. But don’t focus on sex right now. My guess is that the majority of the time you spend with him, you’re just fooling around, right?

So take a breather. Step back. Try getting to KNOW him more. More about him, his family, his likes/dislikes, etc. Go on actual dates instead of sneaking off to whatever hidden place you can find to mess around.

I, personally, don’t agree with waiting until marriage, but I respect those that want to do that for themselves. However, I resoundingly agree with waiting until you’re older and able to make better decisions grounded in emotional maturity. At 15 you just can’t do that. You, physically, are incapable of making those decisions, but it’s not your fault! Teenagers have a undeveloped frontal lobe which impacts decision making and impulse control. That’s why I always advise people to wait because the decisions we make as teenagers, especially young ones, are, more often than not, ones we sorely regret later in life.

So if this is what you want, to wait until marriage to have sex, then satisfy your needs in all the other ways you can, but slow things down with your boyfriend. The less you do with him, the less opportunities you have to be tempted with him. Dial it back! By fooling around with him like that, you’re consistently putting yourself in a position to give in to temptation and you know very well that’s what you’re doing.

You’re essentially playing with fire and asking me if it can burn you…when you KNOW it can and will.

Take a step back. That’s my advice on what to do if you really want to wait. You have to make that choice for yourself and stick to it, no matter how horny and how many “fuck it!” moments you have. It’s all up to you. You’re driving the car.

I’m only 16 and i wanna have sex, idk what to.. can you give me some advice ? (I have a boyfriend for 9 months and he is 3 year old older than me)

WAIT.

He’s three years older and I know that doesn’t sound like a huge age difference, but when you’re 16 and he’s 19 that is an astronomical difference in maturity and the stages of your lives.

Don’t rush into it because you’re horny and he’s older so you think you have an obligation to catch up to him. If it’s what you want, then, of course, do what you want. But you’re here asking me if it’s the right thing to do. Which means you are having doubts.

I don’t know exactly what your doubts are, but you should think about that. Figure out the real reason why you’re hesitating to take this step and you’ll get your answer about what to do.

im sorry this is really weird but ughhh idk what to do ok so im embarrassed of how my vagina looks and im too embarrassed to let my girlfriend see it… i know theres surgery and stuff to make it look better but theyre expensive and ill be too embarrassed to let anyone do it anyway! what should i do?

Okay, what exactly do you think is wrong with your vagina?

Read this post in the sex advice tag, please.

And surgery, unless you have something that’s medically wrong with you, should never even be considered an option when it comes to your vagina. Pussy is not a shiny, pink, plastic toy for you to have surgically altered. I guarantee that you are making it out to be 100x worse in your head than what it really is.