Author: sumptuousdaydreams

/post/57402685266 and /post/54930511525 … I ship them all. It’s inappropriate to say maybe, but the chemistry here is really good that I am in awe.

lol. Not inappropriate at all! It’s sole purpose of them making these vids! 😉 Those two videos are considered some of their best ones because of the chemistry! Both couples are in sync and really enjoying each other. 🙂

I am getting turned on by your gif’s of gay guys having sex. Is that weird? I am female and bisexual and normally think anal is weird whether it being two dudes, a guy and a girl, or two girls with a dildo.

Well, first, it’s just naturally more pleasurable for men to have anal sex than women because of anatomical differences and the presence of their G-Spot/prostate. So two men having sex has a different pleasure spin on it, to start with, rather than seeing women have anal sex.

Also, it’s just two hot guys fucking. It’s sex. Sex is a turn on. Whether it’s two guys, two girls, guy and girl, two girls one guy, two guys one girl, orgy, whatever! As long as it’s done right and there’s chemistry, there’s intimacy, there’s a feeling of real pleasure taking place…that’s the turn on!

You’re not thinking about anal sex when you see two guys, you’re thinking about how hot they look, how good they’re feeling, the rhythm they have, etc. You’re thinking about the sexual pleasure they’re deriving from it. It doesn’t matter as much HOW they’re getting it, but rather how good they’re making it look.

Sex turns you on. GOOD SEX turns you on even more. Men, women, it doesn’t matter which combination you use, it’s all still sex and if they’re doing it right, it’s fucking hot.

Regarding the stretch marks ask from the anon–I’m a guy, 6’2″ who did most all of his growing in 8th-10th grade. The bones/muscles in my body grew so quickly but my skin never caught the memo until I finally grew into myself–my back is top to bottom horizontal stretch marks and the insides of my thighs and above my thighs both have stretch marks. My back looks like a TIGER attacked me. Stretch marks should be worn proudly–be proud that life and growth happened! NATURE happened <3

hi, i was the one who asked about the boyfriend hurting while fingering me thing. the thing is, he has had sex quite a few times and has had his share of other sexual experiences. and he said that he’s never had a girl feel like that before? do i have some overly sensitive vagina or something?? haha idk whats wrong with me! &how would i tell him to do that?? just ask him to be more slow and work his way up?

Yes!

Just because the other girls didn’t have an issue (or likely didn’t TELL him there was an issue) doesn’t mean that you have to be the same as them. Every girl is different. What worked for them, obviously is not working for you. So tell your guy what you need and he’ll learn that not all girls like the same thing in the same way. You have to adapt and change it up for each person. There’s nothing wrong with you. He just seems to be under the impression that there’s one standard method that works every time when that is far…far…far…from the reality.

Some girls are tighter than others. Just the way your body is. Tell your boyfriend to go slower, easier, and let yourself get used to it. Be very clear on what you need him to do. Communicate. The best way to do that is to combine instructions with positive reinforcement. ‘Yeah, that’s it, that feels good. Slow down, easy, ohh that’s so good.’ Tell him how you want it and when he gets it right, be sure to express that. Moan or show some sign of appreciation. He should want to please you and seeing that it’s working, he’ll get really into it!

However, if he still doesn’t listen to you and just does it “his way” – NOPE. Time for a new boyfriend.

hey, i’m a guy and i love jacking off, but its becoming boring, what are some ways to make it better, without having to buy anything specifically marketed as a sex toy. like what household products other than lubricants can make it feel better? or anything else you can do while jacking off?

Try different places and positions when you’re jacking off. Instead of just in your chair or on your bed, do it somewhere else. Stand in your backyard and beat off! lol. Just try anyplace new and a new position to break out of the rut.

Also, if you watch the same kind of porn, stop watching it. Instead try using your imagination rather than visual stimulation. Fantasize. Also, you can try watching something really different. If you’re straight, watch gay porn! If you’re gay, watch straight porn! Seriously, anything to change it up. I’m not promising it will work, but you should always keep an open mind.

Now, you can get REALLY creative with household items. You have a plethora of options available to you. I’ll suggest a few and then you should take a look through what you have and open your mind to the possibilities…

-A banana. No, I’m not messing with you. Cut the tip off and squirt the inside out. Pop it in the microwave for a few seconds to warm it up (not too long or you’ll burn yourself!). Then fill it with some kind of lube, doesn’t matter what, wrap the sections around your cock, or shove your load into the hole, and pump away! IT WORKS!

-Fuck your pillows. Stack them on top of each other or side-by-side. Lie on top and go to town. You also can use just one; mold it around your dick and thrust against it. Try couch cushions too. Put your cock in between the cushions (standing or kneeling) or slip it underneath the cushions. Crammed in between, you control the resistance as you press into the tight crevice.

– Use a hot, wet towel in the shower to jerk off into. The weight and moist cocooned warmth will feel awesome. Better than the standard shower jack off.

– More food… No, I’m not going to tell you to fuck a pie. Fuck a large cucumber! Or a melon, squash, watermelon, honeydew, cantaloupe, and so on… Cut a hole to fit your cock in one side, and a smaller opening the size of a pencil in the other. Hollow out the inside to fit you and then fuck that squishy goodness. You can put your finger over the smaller hole and remove it to adjust the suction to simulate the effect of getting a BJ. Bonus points for warming them up in the microwave beforehand. (Remember, not more than a few seconds! You’ll burn yourself!)

– Get a plastic baggie and fill it with something like Crisco, Vaseline, Jell-O, or banana pulp (if you’ve tried the first suggestion, then you already have that on hand!). Hold it in your preferred hand and stuff yourself in there. Fuck away!

– Get a stuffed animal, cut a hole in the bottom, and fuck the stuffing out of it. Yeah, I made a pun. 😉

Like I said, you have a ton of different things you can try. You just have to think outside of the box! If it’s getting old, there’s always something new to experiment with. (Just be safe and make wise choices about what you’re putting your cock in.)

how do you feel about a girl with stretch marks? i have them on my hips, boobs and thighs. they are very faded but still noticeable. they make me feel unsexy.

Everyone has stretch marks. Somewhere, somehow, they do.

Some people have them just from getting taller or growing too quickly. Which is why boobs, hips, thighs, and stomachs are the most common areas for them. Some people are genetically predisposed to be more likely to get them. You can even get them from building up your muscles too quickly, stretching the skin!

Some people have more than others and in more obvious places, but it doesn’t change anything. They’re just stretchmarks, everyone’s seen them, everyone knows what they are. They’re not weird or unusual things on your body. They’re just annoying marks that uneccesarily make a person feel more self conscious about their bodies when our culture really needs to embrace the ever present reality of stretch marks. I swear, if you walked down the street and asked people to show you their stretch marks, 9 out of 10 will have some to show you. And that one person who doesn’t probably has a cellulite issue. WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING!

I don’t care in the least if a girl has stretch marks. It makes no difference to me. If I want to fuck her, I want to fuck her. They might as well be invisible for all it matters to me.

I am getting ready to buy my first vibrator and dildo. I am going to order online for descrectionary purposes. Is there aything you can suggest?

In the sex advice tag this post lists a few good sites to order toys from. It does depend on what kind of stimulation you prefer. Do you just want clitoral stimulation or just penetration or both? Because you can find a toy that has both or focuses on just one. So keep that in mind.

As for SPECIFIC toys…I open that up for my followers.

What is your number one, all time favorite vibrator? The one that never fails to get you off? The one that you would get rid of your boyfriend/girlfriend first before having to get rid of? (JOKE!)

The Hitachi Magic Wand is a timeless favorite. I, personally, hate the Rabbit and all its knock off brothers and sisters. I blame Sex and The City for overhyping that thing. The Gigi is multifunctional in all the right ways (most of the LELO products are similar and effective).  The Silver Bullet is super popular, simple, and cheap. Almost every sex shop has its own version and you can even get it on Amazon.

Ultimately, it’s difficult to recommend a toy because I don’t know what you like. It’s a decision that requires personal experimentation and knowing what kind of stimulation turns you on/gets you off.

How about you guys?

FOLLOWER PARTICIPATION TIME! I NEED YOUR HELP!

sumptuousdaydreams:

So about 90% of my ask box is constantly filled with questions from girls/women about masturbating.

…I can only answer this question so often and I can only give one perspective – my own. That’s not good enough because everyone is different and everyone likes different things. One method might work amazingly for some while the same method will do nothing for others.

So what to do?

I need you – all of you females that follow me (sorry boys, next time) – to message me or send me a fanmail or reply to this post with some of the ways that YOU like to masturbate.

I’ll repeat: TELL ME HOW YOU LIKE TO MASTURBATE.

You can be anon, it doesn’t matter. I’m not going to reply to your message. What I’m going to do is compile a list of at least 10 different ways to masturbate (hopefully you guys will give me more than that) and then I’m going to post it for everyone to see as a “master list” of sorts. Then I can have that for anyone else in the future to see if they need ideas for how to masturbate.

No names will be used. I just need ideas! I need you to tell me what works for you and it needs to be as detailed as you can be. No “I use toys” or “I watch porn”. DETAILS! What toys specifically? How exactly do you touch yourself when you watch porn, and what kind of porn are you watching, and where are you watching it, etc? What is your surefire, go-to, method to orgasm?

Don’t worry about being “weird” or “unusual”. IF IT WORKS, IT WORKS. There’s no judgment here! And the stuff that we don’t typically hear about is exactly the kind of thing other women need to know! Because maybe that’s exactly what they’ve been looking for!

I’m sure there will be many that overlap so the goal is to have at least 10 distinctly different ways to masturbate. This is to help others so please don’t be shy! Who knows? You may discover something new to try yourself! That’s the whole point!

Exchange secrets, ladies!

It’s time to get this masturbation issue solved once and for all.

So message me or even just reply here, whatever you feel comfortable with. Fan mail is ideal if your response is too long for the usual ask box message. Remember, I’m not giving out names. This is just going to be a compiled list. NOW START TYPING AND HIT SEND!

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