Author: sumptuousdaydreams

There’s this girl that I’m inviting over for the summer, I don’t want to be to straight forward with her but I’m a girl she’s a girl and I want to see if any thing could happen.. I mean she beautiful and I’ve thought about her that way a lot, I want to do things with her that I never have,I think it would be special if it was her, how do I approach her , or make it happen with out it being a some one night thing I mean it’s a whole summer. I guess what I mean is how do I get it to happen?

I hate to tell you this, but there’s no magic formula. You guys will have a whole summer to spend together. A lot can happen in those weeks. You just don’t know WHAT will happen and you can’t know. You guys will laugh, do crazy things, do lazy things, you’ll talk for hours, you’ll stay up together at night, and you’ll be the first ones you talk to in the morning.

That kind of time together changes things and gives you more opportunities to take chances than you would during any other part of the year. It actually makes it easier because you become closer, more intimate, and you feel more comfortable doing things that you didn’t think you were confident enough to do before.

Just go with it. Be open. Be honest. Have fun. You will know when the opportunity presents itself. Don’t be afraid to take it if/when it does. Don’t rush things either.

I know that’s not what you wanted to hear, but there’s nothing else I can tell you. Do what feels right. Enjoy your summer and live in the moment. 🙂

so you wouldn’t answer if I asked what video a gif came from? (just trying to understand “source”)

Yes, because:

A) I can’t possibly answer every single question about the hundreds of videos I’ve gif’d.

B) I can’t freaking REMEMBER the hundreds of videos that I’ve gif’d… (They’re not from the same site or the same production company. They’re from dozens of places – just to start!)

C) My askbox is already flooded with so many questions for me to answer that it feels like I’m some tumblr x-rated version of “Dear Abby”. I can’t even keep up with that!

Ive gone down on my boyfriend multiple times and whenever i ask him to return the favor he tells me he’s scared and doesn’t know how to do it. He said its kinda gross to him and he’s intimidated by the thought of doing it…Im the first girl he’s done stuff with though. We’ve been dating 4 months

Tell him to man the fuck up and do it. If you can suck his dick, he can certainly lick your pussy. “Scared” is bullshit. He can google tips, you can talk him through it, etc. He has no reason other than his ‘grossed out’ thing. If he’s too grossed out by the thought of going down on you, then he can forget you going down on him! Quid pro quo!

Besides, you want to please your partners as much as you possibly can. That’s a natural instinct; to give as much as you receive. So for him to be so resistant to this is really when you need to start questioning who is putting who’s needs first? He’s being selfish.

I get being nervous about it, that’s normal, but he needs to push through the nerves and realize that it’s not scary, it’s not gross, and IT’S NOT ABOUT HIM. It’s about you. If he can’t understand that, then maybe you need to think about why you’re wasting your time with this guy.