Kind of an embarrassing question, but I do still live with my family, am too embarrassed to make a purchase for a vibratory (and a few other things😉) in a store, but when online shops say discreet packaging, is there really no way of telling what it is? I just want to be sure

If your family is in the habit of opening your packages, then I wouldn’t advise it. But, yes, it is very discreet. It’s just a brown box usually. They won’t know what it is unless they open it. Hope that helps!