I was experimental with sex in relationships before the one I’m in, but my current boyfriend dislikes experimenting in bed, even though I’ve been slow and encouraging with him. I can enjoy most anything, if it makes my partner feel good, but he only likes missionary, or me on top (occasionally). I’ve had conversations with him, even tried to introduce new things, but he’s just not interested. I’d like to enjoy the ones that turn me on the most, but he is balking at all attempts. HELP!

If it’s not his thing, then it’s not his thing.

Some people are very specific and narrow in what they enjoy and that’s okay! Problem is: it’s not satisfying you. Unfortunately, it doesn’t sound like you guys are sexually compatible. It happens all the time. If he’s not interested in the things that excite you and fulfill you sexually then you have a decision to make.

You’ve discussed it with him, given him the information about what you want/like/need, but they’re not things that HE is into. No one is in the wrong here. You’re just not compatible at that level and you should be with someone who is. You’ll find them. 🙂