So, I’m a junior in high school and I have a soon to be boyfriend. I gave him head after school at his house. He told all of his friends, now a few of them want me to give them a blow job, what do I do?

Step 1: He’s no longer a “soon to be boyfriend” or “ANYTHING” of yours.

Step 2: Groin punch him.

Step 3: Tell all his friends that they’re desperate disgusting pigs and you wouldn’t go near them unless you were about to taser them.

Step 4: Hang out with your friends and have a boy-free summer. Just have fun. Senior year will be a new start.

This guy does not have any intention of being a true boyfriend nor does he show any respect for you as a person of value. He went and told all his friends that you’re easy and they should hit you up if they wanna get off too. He’s the asshole that all other assholes want to be. He didn’t just tell them that you went down on him, think about it, how could he have possibly said it in a way that would make them think that they’d have a shot? Also, they weren’t concerned about hitting up their friend’s “girl”? If they thought that you meant something to him, that he really cared about you, they wouldn’t dare approach you like that. Even assholes have rules.

It sucks when you realize that about people, that they’re not who you thought they were especially after you’ve been doing some intimate things with them, but try to see through the hurt and realize there’s better people out there. Far better guys.

It is NOT normal for boys to behave this way nor is it acceptable for them to behave that way. It needs to stop and the only way it will is if every time someone acts like that, they are met with the same abhorrent rejection and disgust they readily deserve. Girls often hesitate because “it’s his friend! I want him to like me! I don’t want his friend to tell him lies about how I’m a bitch and then he won’t want me anymore”. It’s the risk you take in order to stand up for yourself. When you look back a year from now, two years from now, for the rest of your life, you’re gonna be so relieved and proud that you stood up for yourself instead of having to feel shame and regret because you didn’t think your self worth was more important than some dickwad fuckboy.

No boy or girl should ever treat you that way and you tell them that. You’ll meet someone else, it’s not the end of your dating life! In the meantime, he’s over with and you’re gonna have a great summer with your friends and family. I’m sorry you met such an unbelievable jerk.