I’m a 21 y.o. guy who’s still a virgin. At the college I go to, its not common to hear of seniors being virgins. Why am I still one: Fear of premature ending. Even when im on my own, I maybe last 5min max, and I can assume Id last much less time if it was someone else doing to for me. I’ve gotten shyer and more insecure because of it, and have kept denying invites to parties, and apartments where girls are desperate. I just don’t want to be humiliated and let them down, per say. Any advice?