I’ve read your advice saying “you’ll know” on female orgasms. I’ve been masturbating regularly for a year and even started using a vibrator. I’m still not getting there. It feels great, but I read & see what it feels like and that’s not what I reach. Like with most sex questions, I want to know if this is “normal.” Do I need to just keep at it? Go longer? Any tips? Thank you, and I love your blog!