Im a lesbian and ive had many sexual partners but ive rarely been on the recieving end. When i have its not really done much for me.. neither has masturbation. But giving really get me going. Ive only ever cum while giving. Is it normal?

We all need to stop asking about what’s normal and what’s not when it comes to sex. You like giving, you like being in a position of control, that’s the most arousing and sexually gratifying place for you. If you are receiving sexual pleasure from what you describe as “giving” then keep working it!

You don’t have to be on your back in order to receive sexual pleasure, remember that.

If you’re getting off on it, if you’re having orgasms, if you’re truly satisfied with your sex life (and your partner is satisfied), then what on earth could be wrong with that?