There’s this girl that I’m inviting over for the summer, I don’t want to be to straight forward with her but I’m a girl she’s a girl and I want to see if any thing could happen.. I mean she beautiful and I’ve thought about her that way a lot, I want to do things with her that I never have,I think it would be special if it was her, how do I approach her , or make it happen with out it being a some one night thing I mean it’s a whole summer. I guess what I mean is how do I get it to happen?

I hate to tell you this, but there’s no magic formula. You guys will have a whole summer to spend together. A lot can happen in those weeks. You just don’t know WHAT will happen and you can’t know. You guys will laugh, do crazy things, do lazy things, you’ll talk for hours, you’ll stay up together at night, and you’ll be the first ones you talk to in the morning.

That kind of time together changes things and gives you more opportunities to take chances than you would during any other part of the year. It actually makes it easier because you become closer, more intimate, and you feel more comfortable doing things that you didn’t think you were confident enough to do before.

Just go with it. Be open. Be honest. Have fun. You will know when the opportunity presents itself. Don’t be afraid to take it if/when it does. Don’t rush things either.

I know that’s not what you wanted to hear, but there’s nothing else I can tell you. Do what feels right. Enjoy your summer and live in the moment. 🙂