my boyfriend ate me out for the my first time and i thought it was supposed to feel really good like everyone says but it gave me no pleasure, it just felt like i was being licked:/ is it me? is it him? i want it to feel good but idk what he can do or how i can tell him

It’s you and it’s him. You have to relax more and it sounds like he needs to learn what spots to hit and what RHYTHM means.

You can actually help him with this. When you try again, try giving him a little more direction, lead him to the spots that you know work for you and ask him to speed up the pace. Pay attention to the little things that spark and you can gasp and tell him to keep doing that. You have to give it time, breathe, and keep asking him to change it up if it’s not working. Go faster, go there, go here, down, up, in, out, suck, whatever!

If you felt like you were just being licked, then that’s all that was happening. Not good.

You can’t lick pussy like it’s a lollipop.

You need to fucking devour it.