If you’re in that type of relationship (dom/sub) then you’re supposed to obey him.
If you do not want to be in that type of relationship, then who the fuck is he to tell you what you can and can’t do? No one is allowed to tell you what you do, only if you let them. That’s what a submissive’s role is: allowing the dominant to control you. If the submissive doesn’t give over that control, the dominant can’t do anything. It’s a mutual trust.
Again, if that is NOT what you want in a relationship then dump that asshole control freak, date someone else, and be free enjoy masturbating to the fullest. 🙂 He doesn’t get to tell you shit unless you want him to tell you, okay?
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