Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating a while now, and I really wanna start doing more than just kissing. How do I go about knowing if she’s ready to do it too, ’cause I don’t have like any experience with this sorta thing….

You can go for “the talk” and directly ask her about having sex and say what you’re ready for OR you could let your hands do some exploring and see where she says stop and THEN have a conversation.

Either way, you’ll be having “the talk”. There’s no getting past it. Woman up and let your girl know what you’re thinking. You can start by asking or you can start by showing, it’s up to you. Just don’t go too fast or push too far. What you’re doing is testing the waters to see where she is with all this. Because, honestly, sometimes you don’t even know what you’re ready for until you’re in the moment and there’s a line crossed that sets off the “not ready!” alarms.

Figure it out together. That’s the most important thing. You’re not on an island while she’s on the mainland. You guys are in it together. Work together. Be a team. You’ll find your way TOGETHER.