My guy will not go down on me. It makes me feel disgusting. He won’t even try it. I know it’s not because I smell because I’m all about being clean and making sure I’m clean before entering the bedroom. My vagina also looks totally normal. I just don’t get it. He says he doesn’t really like fingering either, but can tolerate it.

DUMP. THAT. DOUCHEBAG. ASSHOLE.

I’m not joking. Dump him now. Call him and tell him to go fuck himself.

No one should make you feel that way. You are NOT disgusting. If he has a problem with sex (yes, fingering and oral are indeed a vital aspect of sex as a whole) then why the hell would you want to waste another single, solitary, second on some asshole who doesn’t know what the fuck he’s doing and treating you like shit because of it?

He’ll “tolerate” fingering? How about tolerating your boot up his ass? Cause that’s what he deserves for being such a stupid, selfish, prick.