Hi, im a girl and my girlfriend and i have been dating a little over a month. She says she just CANT cum and its not me its her. but she can climax and all that i can make her scream and i think ive made her squirt but she says it was just pee but i didn’t think you should pee during sex (i was fingering her and eating her out). I want to make her cum, and i refuse to let her make me cum until i can do it to her… please help?

I’m confused. She’s orgasmed but she can’t orgasm? She’s ejaculated but she hasn’t orgasmed?

Well, whatever the issue is, try doing something different. If one thing doesn’t work, surprise her with something else. Check the tags for ideas. I give a lot of tips on how to eat a girl out. Surprise is your biggest advantage because if it’s something new, she’s taken off guard, her thoughts won’t be as focused, and it’ll open her up to being able to feel more.