Recently my girlfriend and I tried anal, and for the first time in her life she cam, which means she has been wanting a lot more anal sex. I did not want to worry her too much as I have heard of it before, but when we are having anal sex there is usually a white discharge from her anus on my penis (I know it is NOT semen). What is this discharge and is it a bad sign for her or I?

Are you sure it’s not just lathered up lube? It tends gets all worked up and looks like discharge, but it’s just the lube coming out as a blob.

If it’s not that or semen, or semen mixed with lube, then there’s a possibility it could be a type of mucous that the body creates naturally in response to constipation and sometimes anal sex triggers that secretion. If that’s the case, there’s still no cause for concern. It’s normal, not unhealthy, and won’t hurt you or her.

You should tell her what happened anyway because if it continues, then there might be something going on with her health-wise (IBS or something) and she would want to get it checked on. No need to freak her out, but you have to be up front about it!

I’ve heard about it happening a lot so I don’t think there’s something wrong, but I’m not a doctor so this is just one layperson’s opinion.