@tigerdaffy said: What’s your view on girls/women calling their husband/lover ‘Daddy’ in a sexy way. Because it’s so much more socially acceptable, but it still makes me feel weird when people do it.

Personally, I’m not into it. It makes me uncomfortable. I don’t like it all and I don’t see the appeal of it. I don’t want a “daddy” in the bedroom, it creeps me out. I also don’t like the sir/mistress thing either. I can’t fathom that being a part of my sex life. It doesn’t turn me on to have someone dominate me or control me or make me their submissive. Nor do I want anyone to call me those things.

The Daddy/Mommy thing does raise some questionable issues for me, psychologically, but I think the “Daddy” term has been reinvented for sex as another form of “sir” or “master”. It’s a submissive term of endearment, but not quite so harsh as the others so that’s probably why it’s become more socially acceptable. Just a thought!

However, simply because I don’t like it or particularly understand the appeal, that doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with it! There are many people who LOVE that kind of sexual partnership and that’s okay! Just like it’s okay for me to NOT like it for myself.

Everyone has their own thing. We are incredibly different when it comes to things that are sexually arousing and appealing for ourselves. What I may find the hottest thing ever, might make you think I’m weird for liking at all (if you judge…).

I guarantee you that every single person in the whole entire world likes something sexual that someone else will inevitably respond to with: “…weird…”.

We all have our things. Some are more different than others. Some are more hidden than others. But they are still there and we should embrace who we are, not denounce others for it.