So my boyfriend can’t get off unless he does it Like no matter how long we do it and he says it’s been that way forever, he has only came during sex twice. Is there anything I can even do?

First, it’s not you. It has nothing to do with you. Just so that’s clear…

I’ve discussed this issue before. I think the likely problem here is that he masturbates too roughly. He’s gotten too accustomed to the grip of his own hand, that entering something softer, like pussy, ends up not being enough for him. He’s basically ruining sex for himself that way. He’s trained his cock to work with his own hand and nothing else!

There’s nothing YOU can do in this situation because it’s a problem he’s created for himself. What he needs to do is masturbate less and when he does masturbate, he needs to lighten his grip (a lot!). By jerking off so aggressively, he’s desensitized himself. Now he needs to find a way train his cock so that it reacts easily to stimulation again instead of needing that fierce grip of his own hand. So, ask him to cut back on masturbating and to take it easier on himself when he does (sparingly). By doing both of those things, he’s using sensory deprivation for future pleasure and allowing his cock to regain its natural sensitivity.

Be sure to tell him that it’s going to seriously improve your sex life! Check out the masturbating tag where I talked about this issue before.