Okay, if it’s your first time you’re going to want to go slowly but I can assure you that you won’t have any problems with being too small — especially for your own fingers.
The trick is to make sure that you’re aroused, so you can fully enjoy what you’re doing. So, take your time. Watch some porn, lay in bed and tease yourself — your breasts, your clit, whatever works. You don’t have to rush yourself along and just shove your fingers inside yourself. That isn’t really pleasant for anyone.
So, once you’re feeling nice and relaxed and probably very wet from all the teasing you’ve been doing, then start fingering yourself. You can start with one finger and go slowly, building up from there. Just explore yourself a bit and really enjoy what you’re doing. If you’re wet, you shouldn’t have any problems with putting your fingers inside of yourself. (Hell, if you’re too nervous to get wet on your own, use some lube which you can buy from basically anywhere to help get you into the mood).
See what works for you, though. One finger. Two fingers. Whatever. Switch up the angles, or the speed, and see what really turns you on. In no time, you should be able to find out what really turns you on and build on it from there. There’s plenty of time to explore what feels good, and there is literally no right way to masturbate, so have fun with it!
-teagan.
Sumptuous Daydreams 