Please help! I have this friend, we’ve always flirted etc but its never been anything more because he doesnt see me in that way. But he came to mine last week and was REALLY flirting with me to the point where we nearly had sex, im not sure why we didnt. but anyway hes coming to mine saturday night and i know something will happen, i want something to happen, but hes only been with slim girls and im bigish and im worried ill get insecure and put him off or he will see me naked and not want me.

If you’re to the point where you guys are naked…he’s not going to be turned off or even think about stopping unless you want him to or a tornado rips through the room. He’s already made his decision about whether or not he thinks you’re attractive because he’s flirting and fooling around with you!

Forget who he’s been with in the past. It’s all about you right now! He’s spending time with YOU, not them. If you want something to happen, make your move.

Confidence is easily the sexiest quality a guy or girl can have. So even if you don’t always feel it, try faking it a little bit. Believe it or not, that will actually help it become more true in some weird way. It’s like you trick your brain into thinking you’re more confident than you thought you were.